Can We Revisit Masturbation in Marriage?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 6, 2019 | Libido, Sexual Intimacy

I’ve talked a lot about masturbation in marriage on this blog before. I’ve tended to come down pretty hard on masturbation (I really hope there’s not some ugly double entendre there that I’m not seeing) in the past when it’s done for...

Our Soul Ties Series: Do You Form Soul Ties By Having Sex with Somebody?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 13, 2019 | Sexual Intimacy, Theology of Marriage and Sex

Does having sex with somebody mean that you have a soul tie with them–a spiritual bond that is hard to break? This month at To Love, Honor and Vacuum we’re doing our Wednesday series on soul ties and emotional bonds, because it’s a topic that seems...

Our Soul Ties Series: What Are Soul Ties? And Do We Need to Break Soul Ties?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 6, 2019 | Sexual Intimacy, Theology of Marriage and Sex

I often get asked if soul ties exist, and, if so, how do you break soul ties? It’s a common enough query that brings people to the blog that I thought it would be worth exploring some of what we mean by “soul tie” for our November series, and talk...

What Should You NEVER Say to Your Spouse When Talking about Sex?

by Rebecca Lindenbach | Aug 27, 2019 | Sexual Intimacy

When it comes to sex, are there some things that are best kept to yourself?So it’s Tuesday, and I still can’t type.(In fact, this is actually Rebecca writing out the post on Sheila’s behalf again.)Normally we get our posts scheduled a few days ahead...

Reader Question: Help! My Husband Wants Sex Everyday!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 12, 2019 | Sexual Intimacy

What do you do if your husband wants sex everyday, but isn’t interested at all in how you feel about it or how you feel during it?On Mondays I like to take a reader question and take a stab at answering it, and I thought that, since I hadn’t done an Ask...

How to Be a Generous Lover: Husband’s Edition

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 27, 2019 | Sexual Intimacy, Theology of Marriage and Sex

How can a man be a generous lover? Last week we talked about what it took for a wife to be a generous lover. And all month we’ve been looking at what it means for sex to be a mutual experience–where it’s meant to be good for both of you, where both...

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