How to Be a Generous Lover: Husband’s Edition

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 27, 2019 | Sexual Intimacy, Theology of Marriage and Sex

How can a man be a generous lover? Last week we talked about what it took for a wife to be a generous lover. And all month we’ve been looking at what it means for sex to be a mutual experience–where it’s meant to be good for both of you, where both...

Are You a Generous Lover? How Wives Can Be Giving in the Bedroom

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 20, 2019 | Sexual Intimacy

What does it mean to be a generous lover? A few years after we were married a read a magazine article by a woman who had vowed at their wedding day to never say no to her husband sexually. Whenever he wanted sex, she would give it. I was just coming out of a bad few...

What if You Could Start Your Sex Life From Scratch

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 15, 2019 | Sexual Intimacy

Today a reader is asking, “how do you reset your sex life?” What if it’s been really difficult in the past, but now you’ve recovered. Yet the dynamic still hasn’t changed. “I have read The Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex and am...

Why We Need a New Definition of Sex

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 13, 2019 | Sexual Intimacy, Theology of Marriage and Sex

What does it mean to have sex with your husband? That may seem like a silly question, but it’s what I’ve been building up to on the blog and in my podcasts for the last few weeks. And here’s why the definition matters: I believe that sex is an...

Godly Sex is Mutual Sex: It’s Not Only About a Husband’s Needs

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 6, 2019 | Sexual Intimacy, Theology of Marriage and Sex

When I was first married, sex hurt. And I felt terribly guilty about that. Have you ever looked back on your younger self and thought, “what in the world was I thinking? Why did I do that?” I have. And there are parts of me, deep parts, that I am still...

Our Valentine’s Day Podcast! On Sexual Confidence, Mutual Sex, and More!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 14, 2019 | Podcasts, Sexual Intimacy

It’s time for a new episode of the To Love, Honor and Vacuum podcast! And Happy Valentine’s Day! This one has lots of fun things about making sex great, getting over hurdles, and more. I hope you all will listen, but if you don’t have time,...

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