Sexual Intimacy Archives - To Love, Honor and Vacuum

Do Women Consider Giving Sexual Favors Postpartum Arousing?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 23, 2021 | Sexual Intimacy

How do you feel about advice that tells postpartum women to care for their husbands’ sexual needs? I don’t write big posts on Tuesdays anymore, but consider this one a prelude to Thursday’s podcast (yes, we’re releasing one on Thanksgiving...

Sexual Confidence Doesn’t Mean You’re Willing to Try Anything in Bed

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 8, 2021 | Sexual Intimacy, Spicing Things Up

There’s a myth that sexual confidence and being adventurous in bed are synonyms. I think they’re related, but only tangentially, and I think the fact that we equate them is part of the problem. In October and November we’re talking about sexual...

PODCAST: How to Be Sex Positive Without Being Creepy

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 28, 2021 | Podcasts, Pornography, Sexual Intimacy

There’s a very line between way TMI and just sharing educational information. And in today’s Start Your Engines Podcast (we like to take the last Thursday of every month and dedicate it to a podcast that men would be interested in as well), we try to show...

4 Characteristics of a Sexually Confident Man

by Keith Gregoire | Oct 25, 2021 | Men's Corner, Sexual Intimacy

What does a sexually confident man look like? Sheila here! We’re in the middle of our sexual confidence series. We began that series looking at the 3 characteristics of a sexually confident woman. Today on the blog I’ve asked my husband Keith to chime in...

SEXUAL CONFIDENCE: Knowing that Sex is For You, Too

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 12, 2021 | Sexual Intimacy

One of the reasons women often struggle with sexual confidence is that we think that sex is something that we give to men. We think that sex is primarily a male need (after all, in Love & Respect, Emerson Eggerichs said, “If your husband is typical, he has a...

The Sexual Confidence Series: 3 Markers of a Sexually Confident Woman

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 11, 2021 | Series, Sexual Intimacy

Sexual confidence can sound almost, well, scary, can’t it? Like it’s something we can never really live up to. A sexually confident woman is someone who is totally okay with her body; totally orgasmic; totally cool telling her husband what she wants...

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About Sheila

Sheila Wray Gregoire has been married for 29 years and happily married for 24! She loves traveling around North America with her hubby in their RV, giving her signature "Girl Talk" about sex and marriage. And she's written 7 books. About sex and marriage. See a theme here? Plus she knits. Even in line at the grocery store.