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What We Don’t Know about the Clitoris (And Other Parts of Women’s Sexuality)

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 22, 2021 | Making Sex Feel Good

Did you know that it’s only recently that medical textbooks have started getting the clitoris right? For years, the clitoris was shown as smaller than it actually is, and often the nerves and rooots were omitted. The penis, on the other hand, tended to be...

Can We Have a More Balanced Conversation about Oral Sex?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 3, 2021 | Making Sex Feel Good

Have you ever noticed that when we talk about oral sex in the Christian community, we usually frame it as something he wants and she should give? In that now infamous Edinburgh sermon that went viral, for instance, Mark Driscoll talked about how a woman should...

5 Keys to Sexual Confidence After Menopause

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 26, 2021 | Making Sex Feel Good

With thanks to Femallay, our sponsor for the sexual confidence series. I hate hot flashes. Even your hands sweat. The back of your neck gets clammy. You want to strip in public–which is generally not a good idea. You start to forget things. I’m...

What Does It Mean to “Prioritize Your Sex Life”?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 10, 2021 | Libido, Making Sex Feel Good

I see advice all the time in both Christian and secular realms telling married couples to “prioritize your sex life.” And you know what? I agree! That’s why I’ve written three books on sex. (including 31 Days to Great Sex; I don’t talk...

10 Tips for Talking with Your Husband About Your Sex Life

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 23, 2021 | Making Sex Feel Good

Talking about sex with your husband can be super awkward. But if you want sex to be good, you’re going to have to figure out how to talk about it! We’re in the last week of our direct communication series on the blog. We’re talked about why direct...

Painful Sex: 6 Conditions Other Than Vaginismus That Can Make Sex Hurt

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 28, 2021 | Making Sex Feel Good

Vaginismus is the main culprit when women experience painful sex. But it isn’t the ONLY reason for painful sex. This month, for the pelvic floor series, we’ve been talking about painful sex and how to treat it, and looking at why evangelical women...

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About Sheila

Sheila Wray Gregoire has been married for 29 years and happily married for 24! She loves traveling around North America with her hubby in their RV, giving her signature "Girl Talk" about sex and marriage. And she's written 7 books. About sex and marriage. See a theme here? Plus she knits. Even in line at the grocery store.