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Ask Sheila: Help! Foreplay Hurts–My Husband’s Wrist!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 1, 2018 | fun in bed, Marriage, Sex

What do you do if foreplay actually hurts–the guy I mean? Yep, here at To Love, Honor and Vacuum, we tackle every kind of sex question imaginable. And today, for my Ask Sheila video, I thought I’d tackle this one (and with many thanks to the Ultimate...

Scheduling Sex: Good Idea or Romance Killer?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 27, 2018 | fun in bed, time management

Is it a cop out to schedule sex? When I give my Girl Talk events at churches, and get to the Q&A, this is always something I recommend when a couple has major libido differences. But I often get people thinking I’m a little bit nuts, because scheduling sex...

Reader question: My Husband Won’t Get Adventurous in Bed

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 17, 2018 | fun in bed, intimacy

What do you do if your husband is not adventurous in bed–and you’re getting kind of bored? On Mondays I like to answer a reader question via video, because a lot of questions I’ve actually answered now in the past, so I’d like to make it more...

Reader Question: I Need Help Initiating Sex!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 27, 2018 | fun in bed

Do you feel embarrassed when it comes to initiating sex? One of the most popular posts on this blog is 10 things to know about initiating sex. But quite often, I still get women emailing me saying, “I really want to do this! But it just doesn’t feel like...

Wifey Wednesday: What Boaty McBoatface Teaches Us about Marriage–and Sex!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 18, 2018 | fun in bed

Sometimes we take ourselves a little bit too seriously. On Sunday morning, before church, I was perusing the news and drinking my cup of tea when I laughed out loud, spitting the contents of my cup all over my monitor. The news story came from Britain, and though what...

Finally Reaching Orgasm Part 2: How One Reader Had a Breakthrough

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 13, 2018 | fun in bed

What’s the next step if you’ve learned everything you can about how to have great sex, but your body isn’t getting with the program? Yesterday I shared the first half of a post that a reader sent me (who wishes to remain anonymous) about her journey...

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About Sheila

Sheila Wray Gregoire has been married for 25 years and happily married for 20! She loves traveling around North America with her hubby in their RV, giving her signature "Girl Talk" about sex and marriage. And she's written 8 books. About sex and marriage. See a theme here? Plus she knits. Even in line at the grocery store.