10 Out-of-the-Box Reasons You’re Not Having More Sex

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 10, 2019 | Libido

Why aren’t you having more sex in your marriage? “Because I don’t want to!” or “Because he has a low sex drive!” Those are likely the two most common reasons. And when the question comes around about why sex isn’t more...

When Your Husband Says You Don’t Act Like a Sexy Wife — My Readers Chime In!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 30, 2019 | Spicing Things Up

Is it ever OK for a husband to ask his wife to act like other women in order to be sexier?On Monday I asked what your thoughts were on a reader’s question about her husband wanting her to be more sexy, and you had a lot of great thoughts! So thank you for...

Finding a Bra that Actually Fits: Solutions to 3 Common Bra Dilemmas

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 28, 2019 | Spicing Things Up

Lots of us have challenges finding a bra that actually fits. I wrote last week about how much fun I had fitting bras in Kenya – it was amazing to see how much getting a bra means to the girls we meet in Kenya. Our fittings were done over top of our t-shirts and...

What Should You NEVER Say to Your Spouse When Talking about Sex?

by Rebecca Lindenbach | Aug 27, 2019 | Sexual Intimacy

When it comes to sex, are there some things that are best kept to yourself?So it’s Tuesday, and I still can’t type.(In fact, this is actually Rebecca writing out the post on Sheila’s behalf again.)Normally we get our posts scheduled a few days ahead...

Should This Wife Have to Be Sexier? I’m Asking YOU!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 26, 2019 | Spicing Things Up

I need your help to figure out how to help this woman who wants to be sexier. I can’t do it myself, because Saturday, I did this: I was cutting an onion to make dinner when Connor and Rebecca came back to town for the weekend and after the first slice...

How Betrayal Trauma Therapy Can Help Wives of Porn Addicts

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 23, 2019 | Pornography, Sex

When you catch your husband using porn, what kind of therapy is most likely to help?I know so many people wind up at this blog because of trauma in their marriages, especially a husband’s porn use (and it’s usually the husband, although many women struggle...

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