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What the Hookup Culture and Purity Culture Have in Common

by Sam Jolman | May 18, 2022 | Sexual Intimacy

What if both purity culture and the hookup culture are teaching people to treat sex with dissociation and disconnection? Sheila here! Today I’m proud to turn the blog over to Sam Jolman, a licensed counselor in Colorado who is passionate about promoting a...

Sexual Pleasure: Why Equality of Effort Won’t Get Us There

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 10, 2022 | Making Sex Feel Good

Just a super quick post today on why “equality” sometimes misses the boat when it comes to sexual pleasure. I use Tuesdays either to take a day off from writing the blog, or to share something super quick that’s on my mind and I just want to write it...

How Many Christian Men Are Sexually Safe Husbands?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 21, 2022 | Men's Corner, Pornography

How many Christian husbands see sex in a healthy way? We know that sexual sin, and porn use, and objectification of women are rampant. But it’s not everywhere. So how many guys aren’t affected by this? In February and March I’m posting several...

PODCAST: New Research Blows Away the Evangelical Idea about Lust

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 17, 2022 | Libido, Podcasts, Pornography

Is lust really every man’s battle? And how do we handle different libidos? It’s launch week for The Good Guy’s Guide to Great Sex and The Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex, and I wanted to save some of our most important findings from our...

The Post That Will Help Men Defeat Lust

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 16, 2022 | Men's Corner, Pornography

Does lust have to be every man’s battle? The Every Man’s Battle book series has sold 4,000,000 copies, and they’ve certainly spread the idea that lust is, indeed, what every man struggles with. And people do believe it in large numbers. 62% of women...

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About Sheila

Sheila Wray Gregoire has been married for 29 years and happily married for 24! She loves traveling around North America with her hubby in their RV, giving her signature "Girl Talk" about sex and marriage. And she's written 7 books. About sex and marriage. See a theme here? Plus she knits. Even in line at the grocery store.