Marriage Archives - To Love, Honor and Vacuum

Women, You Can Trust the Evidence in Front of You | The “All the Books” Short Film

by Rebecca Lindenbach | Aug 2, 2022 | Marriage, Sex, Videos

What is the story that Christian marriage books are writing? We know what they’re telling–it’s right there in the pages! But what if the books we read are also a part of writing our own stories? It’s Rebecca here today (Sheila’s down...

When Are Wet Towels on the Bed More than Just Wet Towels on the Bed?

by Rebecca Lindenbach | Jul 25, 2022 | Homemaking, Resolving Conflict

Did you know that 45,000 receive an email from me every Friday with a round-up of things from the blog and social media that week? To make sure you don’t miss anything? And that email is usually written by Rebecca, with an extra insight or thought into where the...

11 Dumb Things People Believe about Marriage

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 6, 2022 | Preparing for Marriage, Resolving Conflict

Lots of people believe a lot of dumb things about marriage! I’m in the middle of moving our site to our new Bare Marriage domain (we should be up and running by the end of the month!), and we’re only taking posts from 2018 and forward with us, leaving over...

Adults Need Bedtimes Too!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 28, 2022 | Emotional Connection, Libido

Adults need bedtimes, too. Seriously. I have talked to thousands of couples over the last few years at marriage conferences and at events, and I keep hearing stories about how “we never talk”, or “we never do anything together”, or even,...

Does Every Marriage Need a Captain? Do Husbands Need to Make the Decisions?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 21, 2022 | Emotional Connection

Do marriages need someone to be in charge? And what does it mean if you assume that they do? Last week Alistair Begg, a big speaker and theologian, posted this on social media: I could say so much about what’s theologically wrong with this statement, but...

ATTACHMENT SERIES: How Can You Grow a Healthy Attachment Style?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 31, 2022 | Emotional Connection

If you know you have an unhealthy attachment style, how can you grow and change? It’s the last day in May, and so I want to wrap up our posts about attachment styles. I’m so glad so many of you have found this concept helpful; it’s really changed how...

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About Sheila

Sheila Wray Gregoire has been married for 29 years and happily married for 24! She loves traveling around North America with her hubby in their RV, giving her signature "Girl Talk" about sex and marriage. And she's written 7 books. About sex and marriage. See a theme here? Plus she knits. Even in line at the grocery store.