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Yes, You Can Write a Sex Book That Can Help (Almost) Everybody

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 19, 2021 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

“A book about sex isn’t for everyone. It can’t be — and it shouldn’t be.” That’s how Debra Fileta, a licensed counselor and the co-author of the recent book Married Sex with Gary Thomas, begins a recent article where she...

More Fixed It For Yous: Can Christian Resources Please Stop Enabling Abuse and Sexual Coercion?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 6, 2021 | Abuse, Theology of Marriage and Sex

Sometimes the way that Christian resources talk about sexual coercion and abuse makes me want to cry. When writing The Great Sex Rescue, we read the 10 bestselling marriage books (we excluded 3 because they didn’t talk enough about sex) and 6 iconic sex books....

I Have Become “She Who Must Not Be Named”

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 5, 2021 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

I’m reeling right now. I was going to start the sexual confidence series today, and that post is 85% done, but when I got up to finish it this morning I checked my email and now I can’t think straight, and so I’d just like to tell you about it...

Announcing the Debutante Ball for our Dataset in the ARDA

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 29, 2021 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

Through the whole process of our survey of 20,000 women, we’ve been committed to doing this to academic standards. We don’t want to just be another book that speaks about our opinion; we wanted to take our survey and do it right, and then submit it to peer...

PODCAST: Do-It-Yourself Tests to See if a Marriage Book is Harmful

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 23, 2021 | Podcasts, Theology of Marriage and Sex

We had FUN doing this podcast! And it’s a hands-on podcast, too. We’re going to walk you through how to tell if the marriage/parenting/sex books on your bookshelf are healthy or not. So grab a couple of books and a cup of coffee or tea, and let’s get...

It’s Time to Hold Teachers Accountable for How They Treat the Sheep

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 22, 2021 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

In the evangelical church, too many of our books, resources and pastors spread messages that we now know are harmful–and we don’t have a way to stop it. Last year, we conducted a survey of 20,000 predominantly Christian women to see if any of the...

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About Sheila

Sheila Wray Gregoire has been married for 29 years and happily married for 24! She loves traveling around North America with her hubby in their RV, giving her signature "Girl Talk" about sex and marriage. And she's written 7 books. About sex and marriage. See a theme here? Plus she knits. Even in line at the grocery store.