David Raped Bathsheba: Why It’s Important that We Allow for This Interpretation

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 18, 2019 | Abuse, Theology of Marriage and Sex

Rachael Denhollander said that David raped Bathsheba. And then everything broke loose. She said it two weeks ago at the Caring Well conference from the Southern Baptist Convention, talking about how to recognize sexual abuse. But after she said it, a pastor from...

An Example of What Gaslighting Women Using the Bible Looks Like

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 19, 2019 | Abuse, Podcasts, Theology of Marriage and Sex

Tragically, too often in “Christian” teaching women’s views are ignored, or “gaslighted”. It’s time for a new To Love, Honor and Vacuum podcast, and this one’s a doozy, and a bit of a departure from my normal podcasts....

Netflix’s Unbelievable is Unbelievably Good

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 16, 2019 | Abuse, Book Reviews, Theology of Marriage and Sex

So I binge watched Unbelievable (with some exceptions that I’ll tell you) on Saturday, and I was very impressed. I had another post all scheduled to go for today, but I wanted to tell you about this show because it’s a new one and everyone’s talking...

PODCAST: Noticing, Lusting, and the Yoga Pants Debate

by Rebecca Lindenbach | Aug 15, 2019 | Podcasts, Theology of Marriage and Sex

Are yoga pants actually pants?Maybe that’s the wrong question! It’s time for a new episode of the To Love, Honor and Vacuum podcast!I hope you all will listen, but if you don’t have time, I’ll have some links and rabbit trails below so you can...

Top 10 Things Female Bloggers Think Pastors are Missing about Marriage & Sex

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 13, 2019 | Sex, Theology of Marriage and Sex

Women have a unique perspective on marriage and sex–because we have unique experiences! Yet sometimes women are missing from the conversation, because most pastors and big name marriage authors are male. So I invited six of the best female marriage & sex...

10 Reasons Why Rushing Forgiveness Ruins Intimacy

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 6, 2019 | Theology of Marriage and Sex, Tough Marriage Situations

When you discover that your husband is cheating on you, or using pornography, should you forgive right away and work on rebuilding the marriage? Or if you discover that your wife is cheating on you, should you put that aside for the sake of the marriage and work on...

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