Sheila Wray Gregoire | To Love, Honor and Vacuum

Have I Doomed My Sex Life By Rewiring My Brain with Porn?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 21, 2018 | pornography, preparing for marriage, Sex

If you’ve used porn, and you’ve rewired your brain to become aroused with fantasy rather than a person, is your sex life in marriage doomed? This week we’ve been talking about how to use your brain well to get you on the road to a great sex life in...

10 Ways Real Women Rev Their Sex Drives!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 19, 2018 | libido

A woman’s best tool for boosting her libido is her brain. So how can she use her brain to start looking forward to sex tonight? I asked a number of marriage and sex bloggers and authors to give me some good ideas. And I was looking for things that REAL people...

Reader Question: Do TV Shows with Nudity Count as Porn?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 18, 2018 | pornography

Do TV shows with nudity count as porn? On Mondays I like to grab a reader question and try to answer it, and this week we’re going to be looking at our fantasy life–how to make it work FOR intimacy, rather than against it. A reader sent in this question...

This Father’s Day, Let’s Remember: Dads Have it Rough, too!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 15, 2018 | Parenting

One of the thoughts that always occurs to me around Father’s Day is that I’m so glad I’m a mom, and not a dad. This week Father’s Day is upon us, so it’s time to thank Dad by emptying stores of ugly ties and the occasional fishing lure....

Can We Have an Honest, Awkward Talk about Vibrators?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 13, 2018 | fun in bed

Can using a vibrator make it harder to achieve orgasm with your husband? Okay, I’m going to step on some toes in this post, and it’s honestly not my intention. This is seriously awkward to talk about. But I had a lot of feedback last week when I shared a...

No More Covering Up Abuse or Covering for Abusers–a Plea for Churches

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 12, 2018 | abuse, responsibility

I believe that God created marriage to be a wonderful, intimate relationship between a husband and a wife. I believe that marriage is to reflect the relationship that God wants to have with us–that sexuality is not just physical, but is about an intimate...