Connor Lindenbach, Author at To Love, Honor and Vacuum

PODCAST: Girls Are Not Stumbling Blocks

by Connor Lindenbach | Jul 14, 2022 | Podcasts

I am very, very tired of the “don’t be a stumbling block” argument when it comes to modesty for girls. I know that this is a very widespread debate, and I have talked about it before in two main posts: My 40% Modesty Rule Why Don’t Be a...

Why Does Emerson Eggerichs Consider a Woman Crying in the Shower Before Sex “A Goldmine”?

by Connor Lindenbach | Jan 19, 2022 | Abuse

It’s Time to Revisit Love & Respect! It’s three years ago this week that we launched our first series looking at the problems with the book Love & Respect. Since then we’ve received over 1000 stories of how that book made people’s...

Dissecting a 1970s Sex Manual: How to Get More Out of Sex

by Connor Lindenbach | Apr 20, 2021 | Making Sex Feel Good

We’ve been taking a romp through history looking at views of sex in different periods. We’ve looked at the Roman world; the medieval period; and the Victorian period. Today we’re jumping forward to the 1970s. On the podcast this week we’ll be...

10 Things To Know about Medieval Sex

by Connor Lindenbach | Apr 13, 2021 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

What did they believe about sex during the medieval period? What did they do that was weird? And what did they have in common with us? In April we’re looking at a sex through the ages series. Sometimes we think of sex as biological, hard-wired,...

Emerson Eggerichs and the Gaslighting of Emotional Abuse Victims in a Sermon Series

by Connor Lindenbach | Mar 24, 2021 | Bare Marriage

Last year, I looked at some rather alarming clips from some sermons Emerson Eggerichs–the author of Love & Respect–gave where he essentially gaslighted emotional abuse victims. I was prepared to let it go–I’ve talked about it, and...

Defeating Porn: A Look Ahead at The Next Generation

by Connor Lindenbach | Apr 27, 2020 | Parenting Teenagers, Pornography

What’s happening with the next generation when it comes to pornography? How will porn use affect them, and their marriages? We’re in the last Monday in our series about porn in April. We looked at the effects of porn; at 4 things you should do if your...