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Does Sex Hurt the First Time?

Does Sex Hurt the First Time?

Is sex really painful the first time? That’s one of the most common questions I get asked from engaged women waiting for the wedding night. How much is going to hurt? What should I expect? This month I’m going to look at some “myths” that we often have around sex....

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What If Sex Is Like Going out to Dinner?

What If Sex Is Like Going out to Dinner?

This week The Good Guy’s Guide and Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex Turn 2! Two years ago, these two books launched. I wrote the original Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex in 2012, and Zondervan contracted with Keith and me to write a companion guy’s version, to come out...

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FACT CHECKED IT: Are Blue Balls Real?

FACT CHECKED IT: Are Blue Balls Real?

Is there really such a thing as “blue balls”?  This month I want to start a new series on the blog called “Fact Checked it For You”, where we look up some of the most common outrageous claims made about sex, and see if they actually stand up to scrutiny. We’ll be...

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Welcoming a New Member of the Family!

Welcoming a New Member of the Family!

My baby had a baby! As some of you may know, I have two daughters. One is quite visible on the blog and podcast--Rebecca, my oldest. She's co-authored both The Great Sex Rescue and She Deserves Better with me, and we talk frequently about her two little ones. Katie's...

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