What were the biggest posts on To Love, Honor and Vacuum for 2019?

Yesterday I shared with you the biggest posts that were written in 2019, and that had that most traffic.

Often the biggest posts on the blog, though, are staples that get consistent traffic time and time again. Chances are if you read this blog, you came here because of one of these posts. You found it on Google, or on Pinterest, landed here, and stayed. And I’m so glad!

So these are the posts that are most important on my blog. Because a lot of them were written quite a while ago, though, many of you who are new to the blog may never have seen them. So I thought I’d run a post today about the top 10 posts overall in 2019–and throw in the top two podcasts, too!


Top 10 Sex and Marriage Red Flags You Shouldn’t Ignore

Marriage red flags–all of us have marriage issues, but how do you know if an issue crosses the line into dangerously weird territory?

Read to find out!


20 Two Player Games to Play with Your Husband

Do fun games for two people exist? Absolutely! Best of all–finding a board game for two players can build your marriage.

Here are some of my favourite 2-player games.


Women: Do We Understand What Rejection Does to Husbands?

Sex is incredibly important in marriage and sex should be awesome! But what if you’ve continually rejected your spouse? Do you understand what that does to him?

I get so many emails from men reading this post–I think it’s an important one.


An Awesome List of 79 Hobbies To Do With Your Spouse

Marriage should be fun! Here are 79 ideas of ways to spend time with your spouse.

Pick one and make it your new thing for 2020!


Wifey Wednesday: 50 Conversation Starters For Couples

This is a really helpful post if you’re struggling in your marriage to keep talking – and it’s so important to keep talking!

Just download the list and work through 2 every night.


Top 10 Effects of Porn on Your Brain, Your Marriage, and Your Sex Life

The side effects of porn can be devastating on you, your husband and your marriage. This post has slipped a bit in recent years, but it’s an important one, as I talked about in this month’s podcast about how porn use before marriage affects marriage. I’d love to see this one get even more traffic, because people often land here when they’re trying to figure out if they should quit porn. I hope I convince them.


Top 10 Tips for Initiating Sex with Your Husband

Out of the last five times you’ve made love, how many have you initiated sex, and how many has your husband initiated? If you say he’s initiated all 5, that could be a problem!

Here are some ideas for how you can initiate sex.


10 Reasons Why Your Wife Doesn’t Want to Have Sex

I have a lot of guys who read the blog, and I get tons of emails from guys, and the most common problem I hear about is, “my wife never wants sex!” This post was the 10 of the most common reasons I’ve come across why a woman may say “no”.


50 Most Important Bible Verses to Memorize

This one is pretty self-explanatory! These were my favourite 50 Bible verses.


10 Ways to Make Sex Feel Great for Your Husband

And here it is–the #1 post on the blog for the year! I hope it helped a lot of people. And I’m excited to incorporate a lot of this information in our new book that we’re writing this spring–The Great Sex Rescue. This was a more technical post but women want this kind of help, and we certainly don’t want to go to Google for it.

The Top 3 Podcasts for 2019

In 2019 I also launched my To Love, Honor and Vacuum podcast, with the first one airing the first week of January. So I asked Connor to figure out which were the most popular podcasts of the almost 50 that we’ve done, and here are the ones that made the list!

Our podcast launched a year ago, in the first week of January. And soon after it launched, I started getting women asking me to do one for their husbands, who needed to hear this stuff, too.

So this fall we launched our “Start Your Engines” podcast, which runs the last Thursday of every month. Women are free to listen, too, but Keith usually joins me and it’s mostly for the guys. It’s great to have so many guys tuning in, too.

This was our third most popular podcast this year.

Am I ever glad this one made the list, coming in at the second most popular podcast! It’s one of my favourites–how sex can be both hot and holy, and how being a control freak can wreck your sex life. So many women listen to this and have a major “a-ha” moment. 

Not surprisingly, our most popular podcast this year was also our longest, when Keith joined me and we went word for word through one of Emerson Eggerich’s blog posts about his book Love & Respect, and looked at why his reasoning was so dangerous. 

This is important stuff, and I’m so glad so many listened in. 

So there you go! The posts how most people are introduced to either the blog, or the podcast.

Which is your favourite? Did you end up here because one of these? Let me know in the comments!

And Happy New Year, everyone!

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