Yesterday I shared my Top 10 Top 10 Tuesday posts from 2017 (that’s quite a mouthful!). My Top 10 Tuesdays tend to be my biggest days, so I shared with you the ones that did the best.

Today I thought I’d share the top 10 posts OVERALL on the blog–both the top 10 that were written this year, and the top 10 for traffic in total (since they aren’t always the same thing!). So here we go!

Check out the top posts on the blog this year, and the top posts of all time!

Top 10 Posts Written in 2017:

1. Top 10 Ways to Satisfy Your Husband in Bed

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2. How Do I Have Sex with My Husband with a Big Belly?

My husband is fat--and sex is hard. What to do when his belly gets in the way.

3. 12 Ways to Help Christian Men Overcome Lust

How to Help Men Overcome Lust: 12 ideas to help men and teenage boys not struggle so much--and they're totally NOT what you'd think! Let's build healthy churches that treat everyone like whole people.

(Technically this could have been a top 10 Tuesday, but it was on a Thursday. And it was 12. 🙂 )

4. 10 Ways to Talk so Your Husband will Hear

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5. Why Don’t Be a Stumbling Block is a Really Bad Modesty Message

Do the "Don't Cause a Man to Stumble" Scriptures Support Modesty Dress Codes? A closer look at the Scriptures--with surprising results! Maybe we're using those Scriptures wrong.

(Just saying, this is the post I am most proud of this year, so I’m so glad that it generated so much interest!)

6. What to Do When Your Husband Gives You No Access to Money

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7. 10 Reasons We Need to Stop Romanticizing the Amish

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8. Does the Fact that “All Men Are Visual” Mean that All Men Lust?

Men are Visual: But that doesn't mean that lust is automatic or that all men lust!

9. Are We Teaching Purity All Wrong?

What if we're teaching purity wrong? Listen to this millennial talk about why the youth group message often backfires--and what we should say instead.

10. Signs You’re in an Emotionally Abusive Marriage

How do I know if I'm being abused?

So three of the top 10 posts are actually part of my 5-day series on how we’re talking about men’s sexual needs in entirely the wrong way. And I’d like to make a plea that you read one of the other posts in that series that didn’t make it to the list, but that I’m also really passionate about–a better way to talk about men’s sexual needs.

Now for the Top 10 Posts of 2017 Overall!

Often the biggest posts are ones that I wrote a long time ago, but still get a ton of traffic from Google and Pinterest! And it’s these posts where people who are really in need for their marriage often land. It’s also these posts where every morning I wake up to more sad comments. It’s strange how the sad posts are often the ones that do well. I actually have a very happy marriage–and I hope that most of you do, too!

1. How to Initiate Sex with Your Husband

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2. The Effects of Porn on Your Marriage

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3. 2-Player Board Games for You and Your Husband

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4. The 50 Best Bible Verses to Memorize

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5. The Ultimate List of Hobbies for Couples to Do Together

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6. Foreplay Can Be for Him, Too!

Foreplay Tips: 6 Ideas to Make Foreplay Fun for Both of You. Because sex in marriage should be awesome!

7. 16 Ways to Flirt with Your Husband

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8. 9 Tips for Great Sex for HER This New Year!

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9. 4 Reasons Why Your Husband Doesn’t Want to Make Love

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10. 50 Conversation Starters for Couples

50 Conversation Starters for Couples: Great for date nights or for starting to get to know each other again!

Thank you for such an amazing year on the blog!

Do you have any favourite posts from the year? Let me know which ones you liked in the comments below–it’ll help me decide what to write more of in the New Year!