What if you have a seriously awkward sex question? How are you supposed to get that answered?
After all, you can’t just walk up to your pastor and ask. And your mom probably doesn’t want to hear it!
I gave my Girl Talk–my event where I go to a church and talk about sex & marriage–on Friday night in my hometown, and it was a riot, even with both my mom and my mother-in-law sitting in the front row. I’ll give more updates on Facebook on that!
But one of the best parts of the evening is always the anonymous Q & A, because people get a chance to ask questions that they’ve always wondered but never had a chance to ask.
Well, this week I want to do something different on the blog. I want to talk about building up a marriage community where we CAN ask those questions!
I’ve decided to give every week a new theme on the blog, and this week I want to talk about community. Tomorrow I’ll be sharing the top 10 words of wisdom I’ve ever received from readers, and I’ll be introducing you to some commenters, and talking about how to build a community in real life around marriage, too.
But today I want to tackle these hard questions we have about sex.
As you all know, on Mondays I always take a reader question and try to answer it. Today I thought I’d do something a little different. You see, lots of times reader questions come in that I actually already answered–maybe in 2012, or 2011, or some other time. But I know that the fact that I get so many of the same question means that you all are wondering about it a lot!
So I’m going to take a few of those questions and I’m going to show you where I’ve already answered it. But I’m also going to point you to some other sex and marriage blogs where they’ve tackled the same thing! Because I’m part of a great marriage bloggers community, and I’d love for you to get to know them, too. So here we go!
Reader Question #1: What do you think about masturbation in marriage?
A reader asks:
My husband and I have both masturbated since out teens and it was something we brought into our marriage. After marriage we both use it at times when we are turned on, but the other person is not available for sex. It doesn’t replace sex in our relationship and we only think about each other when we are doing it. Christians seem to be pretty split on the issue. Some say it is wrong no matter what, and others say it is OK as long as both partners are aware of it and it is not taking away from the relationship. Our kids are also reaching an age where we want to start talking to them about sex and we want to discuss masturbation with them as well. I wanted to know where you stand on the issue, if you have any experience with it and what you recommendations would be for my situation.
Okay, usually my questions about masturbation are a little more “sinister”, like a wife catching her husband masturbating in the shower, often when he never wants to make love to his wife!
This one really doesn’t sound like it’s a problem one. So here are some resources for you:
Sheila talks about masturbation in marriage.
Julie from Intimacy in Marriage and Hot, Holy and Humorous both have a candid conversation about masturbation. Seriously, you need to get to know these ladies!
And here’s Paul from The XY Code with a rather depressing survey on masturbation, and some encouragement for us to prioritize our marriages!
Reader Question #2: What Do You Think About Implants?
My husband and I have a great marriage and satisfying sex life, but here’s my issue: when we were first married, I had lovely, voluptuous breasts. Since then, I have nursed 3 babies and became a runner. I have one breast that is a size A (but mostly skin) and one modest B that is ok. They do not make me feel sexy AT ALL. I’ve tried to gain a little weight, but it didn’t go to my breasts. Go figure. I LOVE my breasts while I’m pregnant and nursing. My husband is supportive and compliments my legs and other features, but I know he misses my breasts, too. What is the Christian view on getting implants? I’d like to be a C cup (and even on both sides), and we can easily afford it. On one hand, I think “God gave me this body; I need to accept it as it is and not be so shallow.” But then on the other hand, it is very commonplace for Christians to get braces, and that’s modiyifing what God gave us. Any thoughts?
Okay, I’m honestly not sure what to say about this one! To be totally honest, as one who has only ever been a C cup (and even that was stretching it!) when I was nursing, I’ve often been tempted to get implants. Truly. I don’t like being this flat. I’ve found that a great bra can do wonders, and I’ve always held back because if I did get them, everybody would know! And I’ve also been worried about the health side effects.
But as for the moral/ethical issues, I’m not sure I have a great answer. But my friend Hot, Holy and Humorous actually DID get implants, and was quite open on her blog about why. So I’m going to send you over to a post she wrote on breast augmentation, which links up to other posts where she talked about it. I think she has more to say on this one than I do!
Reader Question #3: What About a Quickie?
Here’s an interesting one!
I sometimes just want a quickie, but my husband feels like he’s using me and tells me he doesn’t enjoy sex as much unless I reach orgasm. At times like these, we usually don’t have sex at all, or he is really kind of grumpy about it. I understand where he’s coming from, but I can’t seem to convince him that I don’t need an orgasm EVERY time. Any suggestions on how to make him understand?
The vast majority of problems in the bedroom are that we just don’t understand where the other person is coming from! He probably believes that you wanting a quickie means that you’re having “pity sex” and aren’t really interested in him.
So here’s what I’d say: “Quickies make me feel powerful! It’s so neat to occasionally see how much I can actually turn you on, and how quickly you can climax when you’re not worried about me. That makes me feel like I’m a supermodel or something. So every now and then I need a quickie just as an ego booster!”
And then make sure that at other times you really are enjoying sex and he knows that you actually do enjoy making love.
I write about the benefits of quickies in 31 Days to Great Sex, but also take you through plenty of exercises so that he knows that he satisfies you. So maybe working through that book can help!
Now, here’s some other help for you. Why I think quickies can be great! But also why marriage can’t survive on JUST quickies. Here’s Hot, Holy and Humorous telling us how to make quickies work well.
Reader Question #4: How Do We Deal with Premature Ejaculation?
Here’s one wife (who has been struggling for 20 years)!
I came across your blog/fb page about a month ago and all I can say is “where have you been all my life?!” 🙂 I’m wondering if you’ve written anything specifically on premature ejaculation? I FINALLY, after 20 years of being together, figured out that that’s what is happening with him and was able to ask him if he’d mind if I look in to how to cure/prevent/remedy it. He’s all for it so if you have any links or insights It would be more than greatly appreciated!
Here’s another newlywed going through a whole host of problems:
After our wedding it took us two weeks to go ‘all the way’ because my muscles were tighter than the security at Fort Knox. 2 days into marriage I called my mom-age nurse friend whom I had been told to call if we had questions. She told my husband how to manually stretch me to allow for intercourse. It wasn’t fun, but once again showed me that my husband loved me and was willing to work and fight for me.
Now we’re kinda stuck again in our sex life. We understand the longer we’re married the more we’ll grow in these areas, but it feels like we’ve plateaued. There are a couple things going on:
For one, I’m loose enough for intercourse, but still not very loose. We can only do the missionary position, any other experimenting causes pain for me.
Second of all, my dear husband has a hard time staying stiff. I love to get him all excited, but it seems like he can’t stay stiff for very long at all, and if it’s a day that I’m more tight, it’s just a bad combination. More foreplay helps me loosen up, but unfortunately it has the same effect on my husband most of the time. Travel and work stress also make him less able to stay stiff, and the last thing I want is for him to feel inadequate just because his body isn’t up for it.
Her story is longer, and it seems like she and her husband are really trying to stay close to God during this time and support each other, so that’s wonderful!
As for her, I’d suggest seeking out a physiotherapist who specializes in pelvic floor health to help her with her pain. I have known so many women to break free from this! I have written a series on vaginismus that may help (the other posts are linked within that one).
Now, what about him?
Okay, so we have two questions about the same thing! I’ve written about premature ejaculation before, and I hope that helps. But I’d also point you to The Generous Husband’s post which is packed full with information on causes and treatments. Read it, and then if something looks like it applies to you, seek out more information on that.
What if I Have A Different Question?
I do have a post that I update once a month with answers to the most common questions. I think it’s got about 150 links in it now, all organized by subject. So check out my Marriage FAQ! Chances are something you’re wondering about is listed there.
Here’s another tip: use the search bar on the right hand sidebar to just type in whatever you’re looking for and see if I’ve written about it before!
And then you can also check in with these people, who are all part of my Christian, marriage sex community!
As We Talk More About Our Community…
I hope you get to know some of the other bloggers that I rely on and talk to quite a bit! And stay tuned for the rest of the week as I’ll introduce you to some great readers who have some awesome tips for you, and you can meet some of our most frequent commenters, and we’ll talk about how to build marriage community IN REAL LIFE (which is so important!).
But now, let’s build more community here! Can you all do me a favour? Just leave a comment and tell me how you first found this blog. I’d love to know! And, if you’d like, mention your approximate age and how many years you’ve been married. Let’s get to know each other a little better!
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It sounds like the second story under number three is erectile dysfunction or delayed ejaculation, not premature ejaculation, no?
Anyhow, a group of women that followed Jay Dee’s website, I think it was, actually started a private group for precisely this reason and I am so thankful. We are (well, WERE) mostly strangers so we can ask those awkward questions we didn’t know where to go anywhere else. We got a little flack sometimes, where some in the group felt that we were being pornographic in talking details about our struggles or successes. Have you ever been accused of that, Sheila? I feel like we are celebrating God’s good gift of married sex and we are trying to make it even better, which sometimes you have to explain what is going on! How are details pornographic? Unless the intent is to arouse, which it isn’t! Anyway, I am incredibly thankful for the group and my marriage is better because of it. And I am thankful for the work YOU do, Sheila, for the same reason! Keep up the good work!
Yes, it is more a case of delayed ejaculation, you’re right! And the post I pointed to of mine (and the one for The Generous Husband) has great points for BOTH, so I hope that people find some help there!
And yes, I have been accused of that. But we do need to provide details sometimes for sure! There’s definitely a time and a place, of course, but if we don’t spell things out, people are going to go elsewhere seeking information anyway. Yikes!
I don’t know where I found your blog, but I got married 7 years ago and you are the one blog I have been subscribed to the whole time! I’m 28
That’s awesome! I’m glad I passed the test. 🙂
Hi, Sheila! I honestly do not remember how I found your site. I’ve been following you since at least 2012! I’m approaching 30 and have been married for 10 years.
I have shared many of your posts with friends and family. Thank you for your courage in sharing your wisdom. You have helped me to become a better wife.
I also frequent Hot, Holy and Humorous. I guess I should check out the other sites you recommend also.
So glad you found me! 🙂
I’m 37 and married 9 years. Subscribed most of that time. I found you via a link from Lori at The Generous Wife. You’re my favorite marriage blogger! I tell friends about you all the time and my husband hears me talk about Sheila at the dinner table! : )
Yay! 🙂
Hi Sheila! I found your blog from Lori at the Generous Wife! Been reading your blog/FB page for about 3 years now! Thanks for your great advice and tips!! Hubby and I have been married for 14 years! Thanking God for every day that He has blessed us with!
Yay! I’m thanking God for every day with my hubby, too. 🙂
I’m almost 30, been married for 7 years with three little boys. I’ve been reading your blog pretty faithfully for about 3 years when I was trying to find some encouragement for a friend and stumbled across your blog about saying ‘yes’ more. Last year, many friends and relatives got married, and I sent them all at least one link, if not many more.
How wonderful! Thanks so much for sending links! It always makes my day when I know people forward my stuff.
A friend emailed a link to a “Hot Holy and Humorous” article to me several months ago and I discovered a reference to your website in the body of the text. I am 50 this year and have been married to the love of my life for 28 years. Due to past physical and emotional trauma and an ultra-hushed-conservative upbringing, our physical relationship has suffered greatly… Until discovering this amazing community of resources! Through prayer and counseling, I have experienced complete spiritual and emotional healing and am currently working with a physical therapist. Your work through this particular ministry has provided the missing components of information and encouragement. THANK YOU!
Oh, I’m so glad! That’s great to hear, Karla!
I’m 42, married for 16 years, and I found you about a year ago when googling for tips on how to keep up a sexlife when you have teenagers (who are awake all evening :-)) I’ve been reading your blog ever since, and find it very helpful. And btw – your post, and all the comments on it, helped !:-) Thanks!!
Awesome! So glad.
I found you when a friend recommended your blog about 4-5 years ago.
I’m coming up on 20 (!!) years of marriage, and I’m 41 years old. 🙂
Hi Shelia! My sister told me about your blog a couple of years ago, and I’ve been reading ever since. I don’t comment a lot, but I so appreciate your blog! I’m 36 and have been married for 14 years.
My mom has been reading your blog for years – since the beginning maybe – and I started when I was engaged, though Mum showed me appropriate posts way earlier. I’m 21 and have been married exactly as long as Becca, perhaps an hour longer, as we were both married 7/18/15! My first son was born in July – a few days after our first wedding anniversary. God bless!
Hi Alice! So cool. I’d love to get together with you in Ottawa sometime with Becca, too! And congratulations on your baby!
I’ve been reading your blog for years now so I can’t remember for certain how I found it, but I think it might have been when you first posted your 28 Days to Great Sex and I repinned it from a friend. Since then I have been a faithful reader, bought your “Good Girl’s Guide..” for a young couple we did premarital counseling for, and have referred multiple friends to articles on your blog. You, and other bloggers I’ve found through your blog, are what opened my eyes to how important sex is in marriage and how we (Christians/the church) need to be talking about it more.
I’m 27 (28 in january). I’ve been married for 4 years (5years March 2017).
And i came across your blog at the start of my marriage journey last year in September. [You know the story. 😉 ]
Hi ladies! I’m Kelly. I ‘think’ I found Sheila’s blog through another Christian Blogger, Courtney Joseph at Women Living Well. That was back in 2011..the Lord KNEW I was gonna need their wisdom and advice 😉 I’ve been married for over 17 years. My marriage has gone through infidelity (his), cancer(me) and a separation in 2015. We’re back together and still working on our marriage!
Oh forgot to add that I’m 44, work full-time as an RN in a male prison and have a 12yr old son 🙂
I loved hearing about all your adventures in that prison when we met up a few weeks ago! Wow. What a job!
24 years old, I’ve been married for almost a year and a half! 🙂 I first found your blog through a link on Pinterest to your article about ways to flirt with your husband!
I’m not completely sure, but I think I found your blog through Pinterest. It’s been…probably 2 years? I’ve been married 4 years, and I’m turning 33 next year.
I love reading J and Paul. They are awesome. 🙂
These are great answers to these questions. It is hard to get awkward sex questions answered for sure.
Yes, they are. 🙂
Not sure how we really found you… It maybe from Paul and Lori’s site… We did a lot of searching for help in our marriage a few years ago so not really sure… we have been married 23 years Oct 16th… our ages are 46
So we’re the same age! Neat. I love Paul and Lori. Interviewed them on the radio once.
Fairly sure I found this blog through Women Living Well. I’ve been reading it since 2012/ 2013. Can’t quite remember. I’m 29 and will be married 10 months this Wednesday.
I go to all the blogs you mentioned with various degrees of frequencies. And I recognize some people from here who also frequent these blogs. I think I read this one and J’s most frequently.
My sister wants to get married in the next year. She’s quite shy about these things. I bought your book and J’s before I got married. I recommended yours to her over the one our pastor recommended (Intended for pleasure). Good Girls Guide has a much more friendly and non-intimidating tone. Not sure if I should send her intended a copy in June. I don’t know him that well since they are in a long distance relationship.
I remember guest posting for Courtney a while back–it’s funny how many have mentioned Courtney to me when they email, too! I guess that was a really good idea to guest post for her. 🙂 So glad you found me. Your comments are always so thoughtful! And I featured one of them in today’s post. 🙂
I’m 27, found this blog through a random pinterest post several years back. I’m actually single, never married, but I’ve really appreciated this blog as a learning resource, because I come from a background where talking about sex, or sexuality at all, is just not something that’s done, and all the relationships I saw growing up were pretty unhealthy. I actually had a pretty dark view on marriage before, even though I’m Christian. I didn’t actually believe anyone truly had a happy marriage when no one was looking. This blog has helped me see what healthy communication and relationships should look like, and that there are people who actually do have that. So, thank you Sheila! I know I’m kinda outside your target demographic, but you blog as been so beneficial to me anyways! 🙂
Oh, I’m glad that you find it helpful! I really am. And a lot of people find me through Pinterest! And now Pinterest has changed their algorithms and I don’t show up in searches anymore. Grrrrrr.. I guess I really should try to do something about that since so many people discovered me there! Sigh.
I am 30 (how did that happen???) have been married 10 years (how did THAT happen???) and found your blog via Pinterest, while searching for advice on being a better wife. I’ve been reading for about a year. I also like to read J at Hot Holy and Humorous and some other (less sex oriented) blogs such as Club31Women and Young Wife’s Guide.
Isn’t it weird how we keep getting older?!? So glad you found me! 🙂
I’m 32 and have been married for 10 years. I can’t remember exactly how I got there, but I know the first post I read was your one with your 7 pet peeves about worship in churches. Which I loved and sent to my mom because I knew she’d love it too, and then I was poking around on the blog looking at other posts and realized, I like this lady and what she has to say (I remember specifically reading the modesty series then), and added you to my blog subscriptions. I think that was sometime last year, probably in the early part of the year.
That’s so funny that you found me through a post that had nothing to do with marriage! I loved that post, actually. I know it ticked off a lot of people, but I still think it’s true. 🙂
I found your blog about 2 years ago. I was looking for a solution to my disinterest in sex, although we were still having it quite frequently. He wanted passion and I didn’t know how to give him something I didn’t feel was necessary especially since I was doing my “duty” and enjoying myself often enough. One day I suffered a neck injury that sat my busy bum down for about a week and while I had plenty of time on my hands and was confined to a chair most of the time I used it wisely and prayed and asked God to show me what to do to give my husband what he wanted, a passionate wife. I, like so many women I have read about since, was feeling like I had no more to give and apparently what I was giving was not good enough. God opened my eyes and showed my that I was thinking about sex from a wrong perspective and lead me to your blog through pinterest. Since that time we have read your book together and have real passion and a deeper stronger relationship than ever before. We are a unique couple that has rarely spent a day apart in our 17 years of marriage and work together side by side every single day. Thank you for being fearless and speaking to wives and giving them a new perspective on sexual connections with our spouses. In my case I had no idea it was supposed to be better, and actually thought I was the standard for a good and Godly wife in that department, my but we do have our blindspots don’t we….
Oh, what a wonderful story, Ronda! So glad I could be part of that journey with you!
So grateful to you, Sheila! I found you via Pinterest by searching for cheap dates ideas in 2014 (I think). I’m 23 and been married nearly 3 years.
You married young, too! 🙂 My daughter was 20 as well. Everybody thought she was really young, but they’re doing great!
I am 33 and have been married for 2 months. I found your blog through Hot Holy Humorous. I’d kept myself pretty sheltered sexually until I was engaged (6 months before the wedding). I am so thankful for the godly wisdom and information you both share!
Awesome! I’m so glad that we could help you!
I found your blog via Pinterest about 4 years ago. I’m 41 and have been married 20 years.
Awesome! So glad to see you here. I think a lot of people found me through Pinterest! 🙂
I think I came across, “I Don’t Have a Headache Tonight” in a bookstore 5+ years ago while gradually repenting of refusing my husband for almost 20 years. Our marriage was a mess. There was a LOT of sin going on both of our parts! It is much better now after my decision January 2013 (after our youngest child moved out and I was terrified of being empty nesters and just living with him) to make all the changes I could in myself.
It’s been a positive upward spiral. My husband is even contemplating a return to his relationship with God!
So it’s been about 6-7 years maybe since I met Sheila and her blog online. I’m 50 now and we’ll celebrate 27 years of marriage in December.
Yay! So glad you found me, Lisa! And so glad I’ll see you at my event in Grimsby, too. How cool!
Hi Sheila, I am 29. I come from Ukraine, have been living in Arnprior west of Ottawa for 5 years. I got married 4 years ago and started reading your blog about 3 years ago. That’s when I became a Christian and was looking for advice on how to live with a wonderful but unbelieving husband. I have read ALL your posts, you are a great author, Sheila!
Welcome to Canada! So neat you live so close to me. And I’m so glad that I could help you on your spiritual journey! That’s awesome!
I’m 36, married 15 years, got married right after I turned 21 and it was by far the best decision I could’ve made. Married through so many life changes and stages we went through together has been a blessing. I live in the Southern US and love your blog and the great advice. I even understand some of the Canadian humor you weave into your posts sometimes:) Thanks for being a blessing!
Hi Sheila,
I am 32, have been married for almost 5 years and I live in the Caribbean. I know I found you through a google search, but I can’t remember what it was about. I only remember that it was early in our marriage when we were still ironing out the kinks.
Since then, using your blog and some of the books you have recommended, our marriage has thrived. I may have posted once or twice before, but just wanted to say thank you.
Oh, that’s so sweet, Danielle! So glad you found me, and that I could help you early in your marriage (that’s so much better than helping you later! 🙂 ).
I actually found the blog because I read a post on another blog criticising Sheila 😀 But I liked her and that other blog as well 😀 so I continued reading them both.
As I’m still a student and unmarried, I know I’m not the target audience, but I’m learning so much about marriage on this blog 🙂 it’s really awesome and I hope it’ll help me be a good wife when I get married 🙂
Thanks so much for the mentions! I also love when a readers asks me a question, and I can point to other great resources that delve into that topic well. Quite a few of your posts have been mentioned on my blog as a place to find good, biblical answers.
As I’ve long believed, God is not nervous at all about us asking questions. He wants us to have answers. And I’m thankful for those willing to speak from a Christian foundation about those “awkward” sexual questions.
Hi Sheila,
I came across your blog through Dr Carol. I’ve been married 18 years and after reading through a number of your blogs, you have answered questions and helped me in one go. I’m SO grateful for your frankness and openness! Bless you for this
Oh, that’s great, Louise! Love Dr. Carol. She’s guest posted here a few times!
Hello and thanks so much for answering my question. I’m the 2nd question in #4, yeah the long winded one. Thanks for taking the time to write me back!
I have a couple of amendments to the story. I should’ve clarified that the pain experienced in attempting other positions is more like extreme tightness, not so much physical pain. I had looked into the possibility of vaginismus and those stretching things might be helpful, but out of budget for these poor newly weds! I think we need to try my dear husband manually stretching me again.
I would also like to point out that even at the stage we’re in, I love being intimate with my husband. I’m the spouse with the higher drive (I’d be thrilled to get it on everyday if it were just up to me!) and so when we have a rough session it’s challenging because it doesn’t feel like we’ve been intimate at all and I know it will be 2 days before we get to try again. And as much as I fight the emotions of discouragement, we do tend to have more just ok sessions than great ones.
However! A big praise the Lord is due to the fact that now almost once a week my dear husband is able to bring me close to orgasm. Though we haven’t quite made it all the way, it really helps me loosen up and make the experience even more enjoyable for both of us.
As far as my beloved husband goes, he is super young so I doubt he has ED, he is clear of porn, the description of low testosterone doesn’t fit with his desire for his wife (?) And no drugs or alcohol ever enter our house. Premature ejaculation might be a tad bit of the problem now that we’re learning how to get close to orgasm for me, but if I were more open at the start and we didn’t spend so much time trying to reposition, I think he would last long enough. Lately I’ve been getting close-ish and he’s done, but again I think that problem could be solved if my issues were handled.
The Lord is still good and I thank Him for his gift of sex. 14 months of marriage containing two heartbreaking miscarriages haven’t made for the easiest start to life together, but God continues to draw us closer together and closer to Him.
Thank you for your ministry and the way you are a mentor to us younger wives!
Oh, I’m SO SORRY about your miscarriages! So sorry.
And I can I just say, I just love your attitude! I try to teach this to people: realize that marriage is a decades long commitment, and you’ve got a long time to get this right! You guys are awesome. I would seek out help if you can find it inexpensively, because it really could be that there’s a combination of exercises you can do and exercises he can do so that you can meet in the middle, so to speak. But I think the patience and love you’re showing each other is awesome!
Hi Sheila. I’m 22 and not married, but trying to prepare myself for when I DO get married. I’m one of the “Pinterest people.” Was setting up a pinterest board for marriage in college, and pinned a couple of your 29 days to Great Sex series without really checking them. Went back in later to read them when I had time, and ended up subscribing! I also discovered J from Hot, Holy, Humorous through you.
Plus I was very sheltered so I needed to learn about sex. Gotten a lot of VERY useful knowledge from you and have The Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex audio book. Thank you!
Oh, I’m so glad, Lisa! I wish you all the best as you look for a life partner in every way, too. That’s great, and I’m so glad I could be a part of your education. 🙂
Forgot to mention college was three years ago. I’ve been reading that long.
I’m 33 years-old and have been married for 6 years now. Our marriage has had its share of ups and downs during that time, but I wouldn’t change any of it. I came across your blog on Pinterest a few months back, and have so appreciated your marriage advice. Thank you so much for your resources and wisdom! It’s such a ministry to all married couples! xx
I’m so glad you found me, Chrysti!
I discovered your blog a few months back and it has been a blessing to me. Most of the questions I could never ask anyone about sec were answered.
Thanks so much for being a blessing
You’re so welcome!
I think I found you almost 4 years ago when I was engaged and looking for some Christian info/advice about marriage and sex! I grew up in a conservative family where these things were not really talked about, and my Mum didn’t seem to know how to answer any questions (even if they were generally about marriage, not even including the more sensitive topic of sex ;)). This site has been an amazing source of information and encouragement to me, so, thank you 🙂
And I now follow both of your daughters’ YouTube channels and Life as a Dare, -‘d love those as well!
Blessings
Rachel