It’s Wednesday, the day when we always talk marriage!
And today, since I’m flying to Colorado Springs to tape Focus on the Family’s radio show tomorrow (it won’t air until this summer! I’ll tell you when, don’t worry), I thought I’d share a snippet I thought was really smart that was sent to me recently.
Through conflict we can grow more like Jesus, see the world in a bigger way, and learn to be less selfish. We can feel understood and valued by our spouse. We can end up feeling that our marriage is rock solid.
But that doesn’t happen if conflict tears down rather than builds up.
So if you want it to build up, follow these 6 steps:
Great tips from Embrace Happiness: The Art of Conflict Management.
I love #6–remind yourself that your spouse cares. It’s just like Believe the Best that we talked about last week!
Now I know not all conflict can go that smoothly. Some of us struggle with spouses who are deep in sin or who are extremely selfish. But that is a minority of relationships. Usually it’s just a misunderstanding that’s making us feel off kilter.
To repair those moments, keep in mind these rules.
And here are more relationship conflict posts that may help:
And for those of you where the issue is something more intense, and where the relationship is tenuous, I’d point to these instead:
Have a great day!
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