'Questions?' photo (c) 2008, Valerie Everett - license: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/2.0/Every weekend I like to throw up a question someone sends in and let you readers have a go at it. This week’s question is about what touch means to you.

One thing I’ve noticed is that many women give up on non-sexual touch because their husbands think touching needs to lead somewhere. I think that’s too bad on so many levels, but one of the problems is that touch is so important to our well-being. And when we do touch, we feel closer (which makes us more inclined to want something else!).

Ladies, today, can we switch up the Reader Question of the Week? Instead of me asking you for your answers to a question, I’d like to ask you to write to men and just try to explain to them what it means for your husband to touch you. And what do you want more of? A casual touch whenever you pass each other? A backrub? A kiss? A neck rub? What makes you feel close to your husband, and then try to explain why (without bashing any men, please!).

What do you think?  Leave your thoughts in the comments!

Don’t forget this summer: The Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex makes a great gift for any woman about to get married!

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