'Questions?' photo (c) 2008, Valerie Everett - license: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/2.0/Every weekend I like to throw up a question someone sends in and let you readers have a go at it.

Today I’d like to throw up a question that I got asked a lot during my 29 Days to Great Sex event, especially after the post on Pucker Up. One email went like this:

I find it hard to get in the mood, and I need some gentleness first, especially kissing. My husband hates kissing. He finds it messy. He doesn’t mind quick pecks, but that’s it. But I need to kiss to feel close to him. What should I do?

What do you think? Can you help her?