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10 Things to Throw Out of Your Lingerie Drawer TODAY!
Do you have lingerie that needs to see the inside of a garbage can? Lingerie seems to stick around forever. You buy underwear one day and suddenly it's 7 years later, you've had 2 kids, the underwear has holes, but it still sticks around the lingerie...
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Parenting Reader Questions: I Found My Daughter’s Sex Toy, My Husband Co-Sleeps with our Daughter, and More!
What do you do if you found your daughter's sex toy, or your son says something highly offensive at school? I have such a huge backlog of reader questions that I've decided to take a few Mondays this summer when I normally do a deep-dive into one question...
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When Opioid Addiction Hits too Close to Home
Addictions steal people's lives, and they steal family's hearts.Whether it's substance abuse, pornography, gambling, or whatever, addictions are silent killers. This week tragedy struck someone close to the To Love, Honor and Vacuum community, and to...
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PODCAST: Noticing, Lusting, and the Yoga Pants Debate
Are yoga pants actually pants?Maybe that's the wrong question! It's time for a new episode of the To Love, Honor and Vacuum podcast!I hope you all will listen, but if you don't have time, I'll have some links and rabbit trails below so you can read all you...
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Choosing Panties for Your Body Type–that Make You Feel Sexy and Comfortable
Can you feel sexy in the underwear that you wear? I'm on a mission this month to help us all reclaim our lingerie drawers and choose items that help us feel sexy! Every Wednesday in the month of August we're going to be talking about bringing sexy back,...
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Top 10 Things Female Bloggers Think Pastors are Missing about Marriage & Sex
Women have a unique perspective on marriage and sex--because we have unique experiences! Yet sometimes women are missing from the conversation, because most pastors and big name marriage authors are male. So I invited six of the best female marriage &...
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Reader Question: Help! My Husband Wants Sex Everyday!
What do you do if your husband wants sex everyday, but isn't interested at all in how you feel about it or how you feel during it?On Mondays I like to take a reader question and take a stab at answering it, and I thought that, since I hadn't done an Ask...
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Wives: You Are Not to Blame for Your Husband’s Porn Addiction
Are wives to blame if their husbands use pornography? One of the things we've been talking about on the blog lately is that you are not to blame if your spouse has an affair. You may have contributed to serious marriage problems. You may even have been the...
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6 Ways to Stop Kids from Feeling Disconnected and Lonely
It's podcast day, and I want to talk about the shootings. Well, I don't really want to talk about the shootings. But I had a whole lot of different thoughts going through my head from all kinds of different sources, and they all coalesced together into one...
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How to Choose Lingerie that Makes You Feel Sexy
What does "lingerie" mean to you? Some of us, when we think lingerie, immediately think of sexy, lacy pieces that take about 10 minutes to actually get into and about 30 seconds to take off. You know the pieces I'm talking about--the ones that are really...
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Sheila Wray Gregoire has been married for 25 years and happily married for 20! She loves traveling around North America with her hubby in their RV, giving her signature "Girl Talk" about sex and marriage. And she's written 8 books. About sex and marriage. See a theme here? Plus she knits. Even in line at the grocery store.Check out the Books
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