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We need to get real about women and porn use--and women and erotica. We tend to talk about porn as a man's issue, but 30% of porn users are female, and almost all erotica readers are female. This is serious! So let's get serious on the podcast today (and...read more
It's not big, blow out fights that wreck a marriage. It's how we treat each other day to day. And that's why happy couples sweat the small stuff! I like to run a series on the Wednesdays of each month so that we can explore one topic in more detail. And...read more
Is sex too expensive in your marriage? Don't worry--I'm not talking about prostitution! I'm actually talking about economics. Today, just for fun, I thought we'd take a look at sex in marriage from an economist's point of view. I actually ran this post a...read more
If your husband wants you to do a striptease or send him sexy photos, doesn't that mean he's perverted? Do you have to indulge him? Every Monday I like to post a reader question and take a stab at answering it, and I found one from a few years ago that I...read more
Porn addictions do not discriminate. For the last few weeks, I have been writing about how we need to change the way we talk about sex in church; sex is not just for men, but for women as well. However, the same applies to porn. It is not just men who are getting...read more
Do we look at modesty all wrong? Is orgasm really necessary? It's time for a new episode of the To Love, Honor and Vacuum podcast! And we're dealing with a whole lot of different things today! I hope you all will listen, but if you don't have time, I'll...read more
What's the best way to grow towards intimacy with your husband? Hint: that's a trick question. There's actually not a correct answer to that question, because there's not a universal BEST way. There is only what God would have you do, in this particular...read more
Last weekend, Keith and I spoke at a FamilyLife Canada Marriage Conference in beautiful Mont Tremblant, Quebec. And I brought along a bunch of the TLHV team. Because they work on the blog, I really want to make sure that their marriages are supported, too....read more
Do we emphasize the wrong thing when talking about what makes someone marriage material? We receive a lot of emails from people in, frankly, horrible marriage situations. Oftentimes it's an issue where sin or selfishness has been allowed to roam free for a...read more
Can churches do biblical counseling in a safe way? Is there a code of ethics that churches or biblical counselors could adopt to protect clients? I really only intended to write one post about biblical counseling, but I wrote that post, and then the...read more