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PODCAST: Meet Josephine Butler, The Hero You Never Knew
Have you ever heard the name Josephine Butler? If you were alive in London in 1880 you likely would have. In her time, she was as well-known as Florence Nightingale, but history has largely...

Why Do Some “Christian” Leaders Believe it’s Better for Women to be Killed than Raped?
There's been an alarming and disturbing conversation happening on social media lately about how women should choose death over being raped. An abuse advocate was talking to me about it, and how...

Women, You Can Trust the Evidence in Front of You | The “All the Books” Short Film
What is the story that Christian marriage books are writing? We know what they're telling--it's right there in the pages! But what if the books we read are also a part of writing our own stories? ...

A Beauty to Rescue or a Beauty that Rescues?
Do women long to be rescued? I may have done a Fixed-it-for-you-too-far last night on social media, critiquing John Eldredge for calling women's souls "a bloody mess" in the book Captivating, that...

Men’s Podcast: Do You Know What Your Wife Has Been Taught About Sex?
What if your wife has been taught toxic things about sex--and you don't even realize it? This month we've been re-running some of my favourite podcast episodes from over a year ago, to allow a lot...

When Parents Enable Adult Children To Be Moochers
Adult children can seriously take advantage of their parents–and seriously be moochers. Sheila here! A few weeks ago I started rerunning an important series I wrote six years ago about...
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