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“Sheila taught me that sex in marriage is a great thing- not something that is just OK and that you have to do, like my mother told me.” – Blog Reader
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We want to help YOU have these conversations with your kids–without them being so awkward! Introducing The Whole Story, our video-based course on sex, puberty and growing up, where Christian young people tell your kids what they need to know–and make it easy for YOU to continue those conversations.
“My daughters and I are all loving (especially me!) how easy and how thorough it makes everything. It’s so fun and accessible!” – Course Student
It’s your complete guide to making sex awesome–physically, emotionally, AND spiritually. The go-to-guide for every woman.
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Do you want to WANT sex again? This video course can help you discover that you’re not broken–and that you can unlock the key to desire!
“This course was an answer to prayer!” – S.
Sometimes the way we THINK about marriage is what’s stopping us from having the relationship we dreamed of. In 9 Thoughts, I challenge you to think bigger and messier–and find real intimacy.
“This is my favorite of all your books!” – Maria
Want to spice up your marriage and have some fun? Try our 24 Sexy Dares. They’re easy. They’re quick & cheap (or free) to do. But they’re unforgettable!
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Yesterday was my daughter Rebecca's 26th birthday, and it occurred to me how much her life and my life have differed when it comes to church. Here's my favourite picture of her, taken this fall...
Have you ever felt like God is punishing you, and your sex life in marriage, because of sexual sin before marriage? (I was going to run a post today where people could get our pre-order bonuses for...
How can you make sure that the messages your kids hear in youth group about sex won't be harmful ones? One of my big passions is helping sort through the messages about sex that we get in...
If we believe that men are insatiable sex machines who will want and need sex everyday, what happens when we marry and wives find their husbands are just human? This week, on our Bare Marriage...
Did you grow up with purity culture? And if so, how did it affect you? We're launching in to two months of podcasts looking at how specific beliefs may impact sex in marriage, all leading up to the...
I wonder: since we've grown up believing so much that men want sex all the time, then when he doesn't initiate sex, do women feel rejected? I'm not talking about the rejection that higher drive...
Meet the To Love, Honor and Vacuum Team
Sheila Wray Gregoire
Founder of To Love, Honor and Vacuum
Rebecca Gregoire Lindenbach
Content Creation & Project Management
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Contributor & Podcast Guest
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Katie Gregoire Emmerson