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Creating the Bedroom of Your Dreams–Even if Your Budget is a Nightmare

Jul 20, 2018 | Organizing | 0 Comments

What's your idea of the bedroom of your dreams? Once a month my good blogging buddy Kathi Lipp, from Clutter Free Academy, is going to be joining us (and I'm visiting her blog, too!). Kathi is so down-to-earth and so funny, and we actually know each other in real...

I Didn’t Really Care if My Sons-in-Law Were Debt-Free, Tattoo-Free Virgins

Jul 19, 2018 | grace, preparing for marriage | 122 Comments

I never told my daughters that they should marry virgins. I told them instead they had to marry guys who loved Jesus. And those two are not necessarily synonymous. This week Lori Alexander's article "Men Prefer Debt-Free Virgins without Tattoos" went viral. Most...

Wifey Wednesday: What Boaty McBoatface Teaches Us about Marriage–and Sex!

Jul 18, 2018 | fun in bed | 11 Comments

Sometimes we take ourselves a little bit too seriously. On Sunday morning, before church, I was perusing the news and drinking my cup of tea when I laughed out loud, spitting the contents of my cup all over my monitor. The news story came from Britain, and though what...

10 Suggestions for An Awesome Summer Reading List

Jul 17, 2018 | book review, holidays | 16 Comments

What should you bring to the beach to read this summer? As my email subscribers may know, a few Fridays ago I sent out an email with links to some posts about the problems my daughters and I have had with some Christian romance novels. Too often they're so formulaic...

Reader Question: Can Dating Long Distance Work?

Jul 16, 2018 | preparing for marriage, videos | 12 Comments

Can a long distance engagement work? Or do you have to live in the same city at some point? On Mondays I like to take a reader question and try to answer it, and lately I've been doing things a little bit differently. We've been answering our reader questions via...

Finally Reaching Orgasm Part 2: How One Reader Had a Breakthrough

Jul 13, 2018 | fun in bed | 37 Comments

What's the next step if you've learned everything you can about how to have great sex, but your body isn't getting with the program? Yesterday I shared the first half of a post that a reader sent me (who wishes to remain anonymous) about her journey to figure out what...

When You’ve Never Had an Orgasm: How to Experience the Breakthrough

Jul 12, 2018 | fun in bed | 34 Comments

What do you do if you've never really enjoyed sex or never had an orgasm? I've had a lot of women write in frustration in the comments of the blog lately that they've given up hope for a good sex life. Sex just doesn't feel good, no matter how hard they try to "think"...

Wifey Wednesday: 3 Ways to Stop Marriage (and Motherhood!) from Feeling like a Big To-Do List

Jul 11, 2018 | chores, family fun, housework | 9 Comments

When you get married, I sure hope you feel like you're marrying your best friend. But all too often, five years later, you feel like marriage is less of a relationship and more of a to-do list. Life just gets busy. And then your life seems to have endless demands on...

10 Weird Ideas to Help Messy Moms Feel More Organized

Jul 10, 2018 | housework, toddlers | 20 Comments

If you're a naturally messy person, does that say anything about your faith walk? A reader asked me this question recently: I grew up with a mom who was an excellent homemaker. She kept the house neat and clean at all times, had dinner on the table at a decent hour,...

Reader Question: Should You Let Unmarried Couples Share a Room when Visiting?

Jul 9, 2018 | friendship, holidays, preparing for marriage, responsibility | 47 Comments

Here's the scenario: a couple is visiting you this summer at your cottage or at your home. Should you let them share a room if they live together already (or you know they're sexually active?) Every Monday I like to post a reader question, and this is a thorny one...

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Sheila Wray Gregoire has been married for 25 years and happily married for 20! She loves traveling around North America with her hubby in their RV, giving her signature "Girl Talk" about sex and marriage. And she's written 8 books. About sex and marriage. See a theme here? Plus she knits. Even in line at the grocery store.