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We Answer: What’s the WORST Thing About Puberty?
We've been so excited here at To Love, Honor and Vacuum, because next week the Boy's Version of The Whole Story: Not-So-Awkward Talks about Sex, Puberty, and Growing Up launches! The Whole Story for girls is a video-based online course featuring my daughters (Katie...
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Do All Women Feel Lonely?
With thanks to Thomas Nelson for sponsoring this post. I'm not sure if I can point to a single time in my life where I didn't feel a little bit lonely--a little bit like an outsider. And yet, the more I talk to other women, the more I hear the same thing, over and...
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Can Natural Family Planning Work for You?
Can "natural family planning" actually work as a method of birth control? Or are people who use natural family planning basically guaranteed to be parents pretty soon? I've been dedicating the Wednesdays in October to looking at birth control methods! We started with...
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A Limo and a Super Fun Trip Down Memory Lane
My mom firmly believes in creating memories by giving our family super fun shared experiences. She's at that age (I think I'm allowed to say that!) when she wants to be more purposeful with what she does. And she decided this year, for her 75th birthday, that what she...
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Ask Sheila: I Don’t Want to Have Kids with My Husband!
What if you just don't want to have kids with your husband? On Mondays I like to post a reader question and take a stab at answering it, and lately I've started doing that through video, with links for even more posts that you can read on the same subject! This one I...
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Ever Feel Like God Doesn’t Really Like You?
Sometimes, when I look at what Christians believe about God, I think: No wonder so many Christians have such low self-esteem! I recently received a letter from a woman that I think is a really important one.A woman writes about all the theology that she's been taught,...
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How One Man Confessed His Porn Addiction to His Wife
We talk a lot about what to do when your husband struggles with porn here on the site. Today, however, we get to hear from Hugh Huston, author of Jesus is Better than Porn, who is himself a husband who struggled with porn for 30 years. And when he decided enough was...
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What You Need to Know About The Pill as Birth Control: The Pros and the Cons
This month on Wednesdays I'm talking about birth control! And today I want to spend a whole post dedicated towards The Pill, because it's such a common method. When I say "The Pill", though, that's a bit of a misnomer, because so many different hormonal formulas count...
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10 Awesome Marriage Posts Worth Reading
Sometimes I'm browsing the web and I find some awesome stuff about marriage. I don't really have a regular way to share those with you, so I thought I'd save up a bunch and put them in a post! So here we go--10 things I've come across lately that are worth your time....
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Sharing the Responsibility for Birth Control: Don’t Be Selfish, Guys!
Birth control should be a shared responsibility. I'm worried that too often women feel pressured to do something that hurts their health in order to preserve their husband's comfort. And that's not right. I'm down in New Brunswick (right on the Quebec border, on the...
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Sheila Wray Gregoire has been married for 25 years and happily married for 20! She loves traveling around North America with her hubby in their RV, giving her signature "Girl Talk" about sex and marriage. And she's written 8 books. About sex and marriage. See a theme here? Plus she knits. Even in line at the grocery store.Check out the Books
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