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How best can you help a couple you know to start marriage well? I've got to tell you--I really want people to feel passion! And so I write all of these posts trying to help people unravel marriage problems and get back to the passion, but it's occurred to...read more
What's your favourite part about being a dad? That's what I asked dads this week on Facebook to give the men a chance to have a say as Father's Day is around the corner! To celebrate the awesome dads in our lives, I thought we'd do a round-up of some of...read more
It's time for a new episode of the To Love, Honor and Vacuum podcast! I hope you all will listen, but if you don't have time, I'll have some links and rabbit trails below so you can read all you want as well! And consider this podcast "extras". If you want...read more
If you're a Christian preparing for your wedding night, likely sex is the biggest thing on your mind. I know it was for me. Like, seriously. That's the whole point, right? For couples who are saving sex until marriage, your first time on your wedding night...read more
We're told our whole lives, "The honeymoon is the most glorious time of your life!" And so we want to have the perfect honeymoon. It's part of that whole perfect wedding package--you'll go off into the sunset with your beloved, and you'll make mad passionate love and...read more
My wedding night was a big disaster. Sex hurt; it was awkward; and I felt so guilty about it that I rushed things when we really should have slowed down. Before I was married I was given a book that was all about how to reach orgasm on your wedding night. It was all,...read more
Not all touch needs to be sexual. We need non-sexual touch in our marriages! Thanks so much to Melt Massage for sponsoring this post! This past April, the To Love, Honor, and Vacuum team went to Mont Tremblant for a Family Life Marriage conference. Many of...read more
Keith's joining me for part of today's To Love, Honor and Vacuum podcast! A number of you said that you wanted to hear more from him, so we decided to record at night when he was home. You'll get a sense of what we're like together--we were kind of joking...read more
Why are you feeling distant in your marriage? What if asking "why" five times in a row, based on the answers you were given, could reveal the root problem? Lately I've been critiquing the way that some churches do marriage counseling. I want to get away...read more
Sometimes marriage counselling goes very, very badly--especially if it's focused on making sure women don't sin against their husbands, rather than focused on building oneness and intimacy. Allow me to tell a story that unfolded last week and took a ton of my...read more