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How Should Churches Handle Sexual Abuse Allegations?
Churches and sexual abuse are in the news all too frequently today. First it was the Catholic Church. Then other denominations started to be looked at--most recently in a huge expose of the Southern Baptist Convention (700 victims in 200 churches; read the...
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PODCAST: How Our Bodies Work, Sexual Health, and More!
This is a bit of a DIFFERENT version of the To Love, Honor and Vacuum podcast! We're getting a little bit more technical in terms of how to make sex feel great. I hope you all will listen, but if you don't have time, I'll have some links and rabbit trails...
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5 Tips to Make Multiple Orgasms More Likely
Are multiple orgasms a thing? And if so, how do you get there? This month I've been focusing the blog on the physical aspects of sex--both how to make it feel physically great, and also how to address some problems that you may be having. I talked about...
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What Can You Expect from an Appointment with a Pelvic Floor Physiotherapist?
If you decide you should go see a pelvic floor physiotherapist, what can you expect from the appointment? Yesterday Sheela Zelmer, a physiotherapist who specializes in pelvic floor issues, shared with me how a pelvic floor physiotherapist may be able to help you--with...
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Could A Pelvic Floor Physiotherapist Help You?
Sometimes women have health conditions--like vaginismus, incontinence, or other pain--that a pelvic floor physiotherapist is uniquely qualified to help with. This month I want to cover more about how the female body actually works when it comes to sex, and...
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4 Ways to Build a Strong Marriage Support System
We all need a marriage community–a support system around us of couples our age, and maybe a mentor couple that’s a little bit older, that can breathe into our lives, hold us accountable, and inspire us. In simpler words, we’re supposed to live in...
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Our Valentine’s Day Podcast! On Sexual Confidence, Mutual Sex, and More!
It's time for a new episode of the To Love, Honor and Vacuum podcast! And Happy Valentine's Day! This one has lots of fun things about making sex great, getting over hurdles, and more. I hope you all will listen, but if you don't have time, I'll have some...
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What is the G-Spot? And How Can I Find It?
Does the G-spot exist? And what is it? Here at To Love, Honor and Vacuum (where we talk about how to make marriage and sex more than just chores!) I like to be a safe place to talk about sex. I know that there are some things that people want to know, but...
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10 Kissing Games to Play with Your Husband
Kissing in marriage should be fun! But too often kissing stops once we're married. We see it as foreplay, and many women don't want to put a downpayment down on something they may not want to buy later, if you know what I mean. And many men don't see the...
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24 Sexy Dares to Spice up Your Marriage!
Sometimes we all need a little spice in our marriage! Has sex gotten kind of, well, stale? Do you want to try new things, but you're just embarrassed and feel awkward asking for them? Maybe you don't even know what you want--you just know there must be...
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Sheila Wray Gregoire has been married for 25 years and happily married for 20! She loves traveling around North America with her hubby in their RV, giving her signature "Girl Talk" about sex and marriage. And she's written 8 books. About sex and marriage. See a theme here? Plus she knits. Even in line at the grocery store.Check out the Books
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