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PODCAST: Can Parents Make it Harder for Their Kids to Marry Well?

Jul 18, 2019 | Parenting Teenagers | 14 Comments

It's time for a new episode of the To Love, Honor and Vacuum podcast! I hope you all will listen, but if you don't have time, I'll have some links and rabbit trails below so you can read all you want as well! And consider this podcast "extras". If you want...

How to Get More Adventurous in Bed

Jul 17, 2019 | Spicing Things Up | 1 Comment

Want to get more adventurous when it comes to sex, but don't know where to start? This month we're focusing on practical tips for a better sex life. We've talked about how to try new positions, how to have sex even when it's so hot you don't want to touch each other,...

10 Ways to Help a Stressed-Out Spouse

Jul 16, 2019 | Emotional Connection, Tough Marriage Situations | 5 Comments

Ever feel like your spouse is stressed all the time--and because of that they're always short with you? On Mondays I like to post a reader question and then take a stab at answering it, and today I've got one from a woman who says that when they go on vacation the sex...

Getting Used to Sex in Marriage: 4 Sex Questions from Newlyweds

Jul 15, 2019 | Making Sex Feel Good, Preparing for Marriage | 5 Comments

I've got some questions from newlyweds today!On Mondays I like to take reader questions and take a stab at answering them, but I have so many in backlog that in July I'm going to try to work several questions into my Monday posts. We already did a...

Am I Too Picky When It Comes to Finding a Husband?

Jul 12, 2019 | Preparing for Marriage | 34 Comments

I have a lot of single readers on the blog (and I'm so glad you're here!), and recently a woman wrote in wondering if she was being too picky. Her letter is long, but it's an important one. She writes: I'm nearly 26 and have never dated anyone. Sure...

PODCAST: Pregnancy Etiquette and How Systems Can Reduce Stress in Marriage

Jul 11, 2019 | Doing Life Together, Family | 12 Comments

How to Have Great Sex When You Don’t Have Air Conditioning

Jul 10, 2019 | Making Sex Feel Good | 8 Comments

How do you have great sex when it's hot outside and you have no air conditioning?We talk a lot about making sex great here on the blog, and this month we want to focus on giving you some helpful and practical tips to help you make sex even better in your...

A Glimpse of Jesus While Overwhelmed with History

Jul 9, 2019 | Sheila Snippets | 12 Comments

We've been having an amazing time in England! We spent a few days in London, and then we've been in Oxford for two days now. I won't share all my photos; there are too many. But here are just a few snapshots of what we've been seeing and doing! Just a few iconic...

How Do I Prevent an Emotional Affair?

Jul 8, 2019 | Marriage | 26 Comments

Emotional affairs. They're heart-wrenching for everyone.Every Monday I like to put up a Reader Question, take a stab at it, and then invite you all to chime in in the comments. Today I'm going to tackle what to do if you feel drawn into an emotional...

How to Try New Positions–Without Having to Read an Instruction Manual

Jul 3, 2019 | Spicing Things Up | 12 Comments

What do you do when you want to spice things up, but you don't know where to start? This whole month we're going to be talking every Wednesday about practical ways to spice up your sex life and make sex great! It's going to be a lot of fun, and there's a...

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Sheila Wray Gregoire has been married for 25 years and happily married for 20! She loves traveling around North America with her hubby in their RV, giving her signature "Girl Talk" about sex and marriage. And she's written 8 books. About sex and marriage. See a theme here? Plus she knits. Even in line at the grocery store.