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When you catch your husband using porn, what kind of therapy is most likely to help?I know so many people wind up at this blog because of trauma in their marriages, especially a husband's porn use (and it's usually the husband, although many women struggle with porn,...read more
There's only one way to grow a marriage. Do you know what it is? It's time for a new episode of the To Love, Honor and Vacuum podcast! I hope you all will listen, but if you don't have time, I'll have some links and rabbit trails below so you can read all...read more
Why do bras never seem to fit? My mom got back from her trip to Kenya last week, where she was busy sunup to sundown distributing donated items to abandoned children and teens, and the adult women who work with them. Each child is given a hand knit...read more
Do you have lingerie that needs to see the inside of a garbage can? Lingerie seems to stick around forever. You buy underwear one day and suddenly it's 7 years later, you've had 2 kids, the underwear has holes, but it still sticks around the lingerie...read more
Parenting Reader Questions: I Found My Daughter’s Sex Toy, My Husband Co-Sleeps with our Daughter, and More!
What do you do if you found your daughter's sex toy, or your son says something highly offensive at school? I have such a huge backlog of reader questions that I've decided to take a few Mondays this summer when I normally do a deep-dive into one question...read more
Addictions steal people's lives, and they steal family's hearts.Whether it's substance abuse, pornography, gambling, or whatever, addictions are silent killers. This week tragedy struck someone close to the To Love, Honor and Vacuum community, and to...read more
Are yoga pants actually pants?Maybe that's the wrong question! It's time for a new episode of the To Love, Honor and Vacuum podcast!I hope you all will listen, but if you don't have time, I'll have some links and rabbit trails below so you can read all you...read more
Can you feel sexy in the underwear that you wear? I'm on a mission this month to help us all reclaim our lingerie drawers and choose items that help us feel sexy! Every Wednesday in the month of August we're going to be talking about bringing sexy back,...read more
Women have a unique perspective on marriage and sex--because we have unique experiences! Yet sometimes women are missing from the conversation, because most pastors and big name marriage authors are male. So I invited six of the best female marriage &...read more
What do you do if your husband wants sex everyday, but isn't interested at all in how you feel about it or how you feel during it?On Mondays I like to take a reader question and take a stab at answering it, and I thought that, since I hadn't done an Ask...read more