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Reader Question: My Husband Wakes me Up for Sex

Oct 21, 2019 | Abuse, Libido, Theology of Marriage and Sex | 39 Comments

If your husband wakes you up for sex, or starts sex with you when you're asleep, is that okay? A reader sent me a link to a post that The Transformed Wife did recently where she was telling a woman that being woken up for sex when she didn't want to be is a-okay, and...

David Raped Bathsheba: Why It’s Important that We Allow for This Interpretation

Oct 18, 2019 | Abuse, Theology of Marriage and Sex | 103 Comments

Rachael Denhollander said that David raped Bathsheba. And then everything broke loose. She said it two weeks ago at the Caring Well conference from the Southern Baptist Convention, talking about how to recognize sexual abuse. But after she said it, a pastor from...

PODCAST: How to Actually Get Your Life Together

Oct 17, 2019 | Podcasts | 9 Comments

Ever feel like no matter how hard you try, you don't have your life together? Whether it's finances, or homemaking, or cooking, or budgeting, or getting your kids to eat or sleep--whatever it is, you feel as if everyone else is doing a better job than you are....

Stages of Sex Series: The Glory Years When Things Are Going Great

Oct 16, 2019 | Spicing Things Up | 9 Comments

Yes, it's true--you can have years in your marriage when sex is going great! We're talking on Wednesdays in the month of October about the different stages of sex in marriage. We've covered: The Honeymoon Years--when sex often ISN'T actually that great because you're...

10 Ways to Get Your Wife in the Mood: Great Tips for Husbands!

Oct 15, 2019 | Libido, Men's Corner | 17 Comments

If your wife never wants to sleep with you, and if sex has become rare in your marriage, what can you do to get your wife in the mood? A lot of my readers are actually HUSBANDS (I'm so glad you're here!), and so every now and then I like to offer up a "men's corner"...

Our Super Awesome Slow Cooker Freezer Meal Cooking Day Before the Baby Came!

Oct 14, 2019 | Homemaking | 16 Comments

It's Thanksgiving Monday here in Canada (a holiday), and we are all feeling thankful yet a little anxious. I'm writing this on Saturday morning, and as of yet there is no baby (and Rebecca is past her due date). But last week on social media I was posting about a...

The Marriage Meeting: Make it Easy (and Fun!) with This New Marriage App

Oct 11, 2019 | Emotional Connection | 5 Comments

Why not harness the power of a marriage app to help you feel connected? We all know we are supposed to spend time with our spouse and check in… but how do you make that happen practically? And when you are alone and talking, how do you keep the conversation...

PODCAST: We Have a Newborn. He Wants an XBox. Plus More Reader Questions!

Oct 10, 2019 | Parenting Small Children, Podcasts | 25 Comments

Does sex have to die when life gets busy? We're in the middle of a series this month talking about the different stages of sex in marriage, and we launched it last week with the "Figuring Things Out" stage. This week we're moving on to the next stage: what happens to...

The Stages of Sex: The Exhausted Years with Kids & Jobs

Oct 9, 2019 | Libido, Parenting Small Children | 35 Comments

What happens to sex when little kids come along? When you find yourselves busy and run off your feet? Every Wednesday in October we're looking at the stages of sex in marriage. Last week we looked at the "figuring things out" stage, when sex is relatively new (and I...

10 Tips for Newlywed Brides Who Haven’t Had an Orgasm Yet

Oct 8, 2019 | Making Sex Feel Good | 20 Comments

What do you do if you're in the newlywed phase, but you've never had an orgasm? This week we've been talking about the "figuring things out" stage of sex, and I've been explaining that, for most people, the best years of sex in marriage are not actually the honeymoon...

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Sheila Wray Gregoire has been married for 25 years and happily married for 20! She loves traveling around North America with her hubby in their RV, giving her signature "Girl Talk" about sex and marriage. And she's written 8 books. About sex and marriage. See a theme here? Plus she knits. Even in line at the grocery store.