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Do you feel like your husband doesn't care about your emotional needs? This month, on Wednesdays, we're talking about intimacy on three levels--emotional, spiritual, and physical, and how we can feel closer. Last Wednesday I introduced our theme for the...read more
I have a lot of guys who read the blog, and I get tons of emails from guys, and the most common problem I hear about is, "my wife never wants sex!" So today I want to present 10 of the most common reasons I've come across why a woman may say "no". If you're one of my...read more
What does it mean if your wife says you never make love? Every Monday I like to film an "Ask Sheila" video, and today's is a sad one from a husband whose wife doesn't want sex--and who feels that they are drifting apart. He writes: My wife and I married 18 years ago....read more
Looking for a great gift to give to an engaged couple that will help them get spiritually prepared for marriage? Are you half of an engaged couple and want to enter marriage prayerfully and thoughtfully? Gary Thomas’ newest book, Preparing Your...read more
"If you were to invest now in your future best self, where would you put your time and your energy?" That's the question Robert Wadlinger asks in this awesome TED Talk about happiness. In my quest to THINK more and VEG less, I've been trying to replace...read more
I didn't grow up in the "I Kissed Dating GoodBye" culture, but my kids did. I made Rebecca read the book when she was 14 (sorry, Becca!). I told the girls no dating until they were at least 16, and I strongly discouraged it until later. Over the years, as...read more
What do you do if you've been dating someone for a long time--but he won't propose? On Mondays I like to take a reader question and take a stab at answering it, and today's is from a woman who has been dating a guy seriously for quite a few years--and who...read more
How do you deal with a husband who is a workaholic? This month on the blog we're going to be talking about intimacy, and how to build your relationship so you feel closer. All the Wednesdays will be dedicated to different aspects of intimacy! Yesterday I...read more
How do you stay close if your spouse goes through something really tough--and seems to change because of it? With thanks to Harper Collins for sponsoring this post on behalf of the Indivisible movie. "I stopped by the English department today," Keith told...read more
Now that you know all about the different birth control methods--how can you figure out which one is right for you? Here at To Love, Honor and Vacuum, I try to pick a big topic to tackle every Wednesday each month, and this month has been our birth control...read more