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You Can’t Recover from Porn by Running Away from Women
If a man is trying to recover from a porn addiction, does he need to detoxify by making sure that he never sees any woman who could be alluring? One of the biggest searches that land people on this blog is for the effects of porn on the brain, and so I have a lot of...
An Example of What Gaslighting Women Using the Bible Looks Like
Tragically, too often in "Christian" teaching women's views are ignored, or "gaslighted". It's time for a new To Love, Honor and Vacuum podcast, and this one's a doozy, and a bit of a departure from my normal podcasts. Recently, readers sent to me an email and a blog...
How to Help Dads be PARENTS, Not Feel Like Glorified Babysitters
Dads are parents, not baby-sitters. But do we sometimes treat them like they're second class in the parenting department? This month, on Wednesdays, I'm writing about how the way we just do life in general can interfere with our marriage and our sex life. As the...
4 Easy Habits to Become a “Porn Free” Home
Can you have a porn-free home? I wish I could say, "absolutely!", but I can't. I don't even like the title of this post, because it promises something I can't deliver. I was thinking of "Porn Safe", but that makes it sound like your home is safe FOR porn. Then I was...
Netflix’s Unbelievable is Unbelievably Good
So I binge watched Unbelievable (with some exceptions that I'll tell you) on Saturday, and I was very impressed. I had another post all scheduled to go for today, but I wanted to tell you about this show because it's a new one and everyone's talking about it, and I...
Do Only Christians Have Good Marriages?
Do you need to be a Christian to have a good marriage? Last week I wrote a post on what makes a good marriage. When I was initially sketching out my points, I instinctively wanted to include something about letting Jesus lead your marriage, or having the power of the...
PODCAST EXTRAS: What’s Making Sex Expensive? Plus Why Life is Just Dangerous for Women
Can we talk about the economics of sex? It's time for another edition of the To Love, Honor and Vacuum podcast, and this week we're talking about how to have more sex! I hope you all will listen to the podcast and consider this extras. I like to leave more things to...
The 3 Kinds of Marriage Problems–and Why We Shouldn’t Confuse Them
There is no one-size-fits-all for dealing with marriage problems, because not all marriage problems are alike. This month, our Wednesday series is all about reducing stress in marriage and getting to the root of what's really bothering you. Last week we talked about...
10 Out-of-the-Box Reasons You’re Not Having More Sex
Why aren't you having more sex in your marriage? "Because I don't want to!" or "Because he has a low sex drive!" Those are likely the two most common reasons. And when the question comes around about why sex isn't more frequent, we usually focus on one of...
Do Kids’ Schedules Make Your Family Life Too Crazy?
With the school year starting up again, I started thinking about something I'm very passionate about: some families are just too busy. This month, on Wednesdays, we're looking at how LIFE can take away our enjoyment of marriage and sex, and to lead up to Wednesday's...
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Sheila Wray Gregoire has been married for 25 years and happily married for 20! She loves traveling around North America with her hubby in their RV, giving her signature "Girl Talk" about sex and marriage. And she's written 8 books. About sex and marriage. See a theme here? Plus she knits. Even in line at the grocery store.Check out the Books
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