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PODCAST: The Rise of Lonely Men–Plus How to Be Inspiring
We've got some wonderful inspiring stories to share with you today--plus a new research study with implications for dating. This month on the podcast I've been talking about women heroes you should...
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8 Reasons to Go To Bed Before You’re Tired
What if there's something super simple you could do that could improve your mood and your marriage? I talked on Monday about rhythms in our lives--how to honor our bodies' rhythms, with the need for...
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Can We Honor Our Bodies’ Rhythms? And Why that May Mean Saying No to Sex Sometimes
God created life with natural rhythms. But I feel like much of the effort of modern life is to obliterate those rhythms. Two things got me thinking about this lately, and I'd like to tell you about...
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Psychology Today Says Women Are Getting Higher Standards–and Men Are Left Lonely
What if men are finding it hard to find a mate because women are getting higher standards? That's the claim in a new article in Psychology Today that's going crazy on social media right now: And I...
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PODCAST: Meet Katharine Bushnell, Another Hero You Need–Plus Fixing Sexist Bible Translations
Time for another hero of the faith! Well, three, actually! This month we're telling amazing stories of women that God used in history to fight against injustice and show that God values women. Last...
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A Letter to the Woman with a Controlling Husband
Are you married to a controlling husband? I first ran this post back in 2016, but as we're moving over to our new domain next week, and taking only the posts from 2018 and forward, I wanted...
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