The Elusive Summer Job

'job search legal pad.jpeg' photo (c) 2010, Angela Archer - license: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-nd/2.0/Every Friday my syndicated column appears in a bunch of newspapers in southeastern Ontario and Saskatchewan. Here’s this week’s! It’s bad in Canada; but this situation is even worse in the United States, since university costs so much more there (no idea why).

In the fall of 1988, a much younger version of myself left home and launched my new life at Queen’s University. I was optimistic. I was enthusiastic. And I had money in the bank.

I had graduated a semester early and worked full-time for several months, so I could pay for my entire first year.

The following summer I polished off my resume and found work with a temp firm in Toronto as an executive secretary. I made $15 an hour. The next summer I stayed in Kingston and earned roughly the same amount.

Tuition was about $2000 a year. I joined together with three other young women and rented a house which was drafty, tiny, and cheap. One of my housemates and I started a home-based business typing student’s essays and printing them out on our handy-dandy oh-so-rare laser printer. I made $2 a page, translating to $20 an hour (I type fast). By working full time in the summer, and typing the occasional essay, I could pay for my whole year of university, which was about $7000. One of my roommates had a dad who worked with GM, and she was automatically given a job on the line each summer, earning $20 an hour. She paid her whole way, too.

Almost twenty-five years later my seventeen-year-old daughter works part-time as a lifeguard and swim instructor, a job she loves and which required hours of training and certification. She earns less money now than I did then. A friend of hers works part-time at the mall, making less than 2/3 what I did back in 1989. Yet tuition has more than quadrupled. Rents have increased, as has the price of almost everything, most especially Kraft Dinner, which makes a severe dent in student’s budgets. A year of university or college now costs roughly $17,000, if you’re frugal. And student wages have not increased.

Most of the people I attended university with graduated without too much debt. Finding summer jobs was always a bit of a panic-inducing process, but it was possible. Because you could pay for school yourself, you felt more like an adult. You grew up faster. Today students can’t possibly put themselves through school, and so they’re dependent upon their parents far longer.

I suppose the wage gap between then and now is partly because the late 80s coincided with the computer revolution, and those who, like me, could actually use computers were paid a premium because the skill was still relatively rare. Today such skills are so widespread the thought of making money typing someone’s essay is laughable. And factory jobs for university students have all but disappeared.

It’s hardly surprising, then, that the average student debt in Canada is now $27,000. That’s the equivalent of a downpayment on a house. Far more young adults will be settling in to the basements of their parents’ homes long-term, trying to earn money to pay off debt instead of starting what we normally think of as adult life—moving out, buying a home, getting married. Debt delays everything.

Life is difficult today for twenty-somethings, and this week, as many arrive back home from university and college, they’ll be pounding the pavement, desperately hoping to land a job that will pay maybe $9 an hour. At some point, something’s gotta give. Will so many students continue to pursue higher education, even when jobs aren’t readily available? Or will more and more say, “I don’t want that kind of debt”, and try to think outside the box? I’m not sure, but I wouldn’t be surprised to see the more enterprising among them hop off that debt train and start dreaming of a quicker, cheaper way to build a life for themselves, out of their parents’ basement.

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Occupy Whiners

'Day 28 Occupy Wall Street October 13 2011 Shankbone 2' photo (c) 2011, David Shankbone - license: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/2.0/

Every Thursday and Friday my syndicated column appears in a bunch of newspapers in southeastern Ontario. Here’s this week’s!

The Occupy Wall Street protesters are starting to really get to me. There they are, protesting corporations, while they film the protests on their iPhones, drink Starbucks coffee, and wear Nike clothes. Those companies did not start because the government handed people money. They became successful because someone worked really hard and took huge risks. That’s what life is about.

Nevertheless, I do have some sympathy for the protesters, because I think they have legitimate grievances. We do live in an era of crony capitalism where some companies get too much government money. Corruption is becoming far more common. And it isn’t fair.

But so what? Since when has life been fair? For the vast majority of human history, life was supremely unfair. It is just that we have recently lived through the weirdest fifty years on our planet, when the Baby Boomers enjoyed job security, company pensions, free health care, and the CPP. So we think that’s what life should be, instead of seeing it for the freakish outlier that it was. My generation isn’t going to know that kind of job security or cushy retirement, and my own kids are likely going to be worse off.

If I could say something to the protesters, I would say this: If life is going to be tougher, then you’ve got to get tougher with it. And that means not whining because you went through school and now no one will hire you. A company will not hire you because you have a degree. They hire you because you bring extra profit to their company. If you don’t bring in more money than you cost the company, why should they keep you on? They’re not a charity; they’re a business.

So you have to earn your keep. That means that your work ethic, motivation, problem solving skills, and initiative are going to be far more important than whether you excelled in your essays in Transgendered Studies, or in Art History, or in Shakespeare. It’s not that university degrees are bad, by the way; most people emerge knowing more about time management and written communication skills than they did beforehand. But it’s not the degree that’s important; it’s whether or not you’re flexible enough and adaptable enough to keep learning new skills so that you can contribute to the company.

And that’s the key: contributing. Tomorrow we’re going to remember the generation of young men and women who gave everything so we could have freedom. They gave everything, while you all seem to want everything. The contrast couldn’t be plainer. How about figuring out how you can give and add value, rather than complaining because people aren’t handing you anything.

Have you read the news lately? There’s nothing left to hand out. You can complain all you want that some people are rich, or that no one will give you a job, or that no one is spreading the wealth, but governments have no more wealth. And the more they take from others, the more the economy slows down. Look at Greece. It’s in a downward spiral, and the world’s governments can’t figure out how to contain it. It’s going to spread. And when that happens, Canada will reel, too.

We’re in trouble, folks. That doesn’t mean you won’t be able to succeed, but it does mean that you can’t depend on anyone else, let alone the government, to help you succeed. It’s up to you.

You can whine all you want, but it’s not going to get you anything. You’d do far better to start figuring out how you can forge your own path. What can you contribute? Go earn a credential, learn a skill, and start hustling. Go learn how to market yourself. You’re going to need to know. And then you’d better save for your retirement. No one else is going to do any of that for you, no matter how loudly you protest.

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How to Let Go of the “Shoulds” and Pave Your Own Way

'Students Studying at Cathedral Senior High School in New Ulm, Minnesota...' photo (c) 1975, The U.S. National Archives - license: http://www.flickr.com/commons/usage/

I’m not a big fan of “should”. I’ve always been one of those people who asked “why” rather than one of those people who gladly followed authority. If someone told me I had to do something, and I thought it was silly, I told them so.

And so I’m one of those people who tends to reject the traditional way of doing things.

And it was in that mental framework that I read Jodi Picoult’s book Nineteen Minutes on the plane home from Washington state last week.

This was a great book. It is not a Christian book; I picked it up in the airport. But it was well-written, it had amazing characters, and it’s still haunting me, several days later. I have to admit that the Christian novels I’ve read lately have not had that effect on me (the closest I come is some of the Thoene series or Francine Rivers’ novels).

For those of you who haven’t read it, it’s about a Columbine-type event with one major difference: the shooter lives, and there’s a trial. It isn’t as heart-wrenching as it could be, because the main characters aren’t killed. The main protagonist is a girl who survives, along with her judge mother. The shooter isn’t even the antagonist exactly, because the book focuses on why he did it. And his mother is a very sympathetic, if pathetic, character.

But what the book portrays all too well is the dangers of bullying and feeling like an outcast in school. I’m walking through this with some friends of mine and their children, and some of my extended family right now, and I think we as adults forget how devastating it can be to be bullied. And what I would say to parents if your children are not fitting in at school, and if you find their confidence slipping away, is that YOU DO HAVE A CHOICE. I know not everyone can homeschool in the traditional sense, but there are so many options now for online education that you do not have to send your child to a toxic environment everyday. We often hear the argument that “we have to toughen them up for real life”, but in no other point in your life would you tolerate being bullied. You would leave a job like that. You would move. You would change churches. You wouldn’t put up with it. And yet we expect kids to. It’s ridiculous.

So again: you do have a choice. If both parents work full-time, I know it’s tricky, but I have a young relative currently taking online high school courses who hangs out at grandparents’ houses, and at our house, and occasionally at his own during the day, and he’s doing his work. He’s also doing chores and getting a lot more done. So please, don’t let your child be demoralized and discouraged by school. There are other options.

Which brings me to my next point:

While we have choices for high school today, we have even more choices for university and college. And I don’t think anybody should choose a path just because they “should”, or because “that’s what everybody does”. It’s too expensive. Look at it carefully, consider what would fit best for your child, and investigate all the other alternatives.

For instance, when I started university twenty-odd years ago, one of my assumptions was that there is only one way to achieve credentials, and we just have to follow that typical path. We can’t veer, or people will think we’re odd, or we’ll miss out on something important.

I have since realized that most of the things that we think we “should” do or that we think are necessary when it comes to preparing our kids for credentialed life aren’t true at all.

First, not all kids need to go to university. It’s better to have a community college degree in a skill they can actually use than to have a degree in philosophy or political science that cost $100,000 and is going to train them to flip burgers.

Second, much of schooling is an entire waste of time.

So here’s what my daughter is doing. She is enrolled in an “open university” at 16, living at home, studying on her own. When she actually leaves for university, she’ll enter as a transfer student almost in third year, and she’ll be able to finish much quicker, and with far less expense. Online open universities, like Athabasca University where she is enrolled, don’t require a high school diploma. Their only entrance requirements are being 16 and paying the money for the course. But here’s the neat thing: the courses are just as hard as a “normal” university, and all the top tier universities in Canada at least accept the credits as transfer credits. So at 16, you could theoretically drop out of your junior year at high school, come home, take university credits through Athabasca, and then enter university at 18 with a few years of university already under your belt. This means you can skip first year university altogether (along with the latter years of high school), which is when a lot of the partying and drinking take place, skip out on residence, and go straight into a house or apartment with other young women (or young men) in upper years. It’s a win-win.

If online university sounds too far-fetched, many high schools are now allowing students to take community college courses in your final year. Take them. Many universities accept these as transfer credits, and then again, you’re not entering as a first year student.

And many online schools allow you to take tests to see if you already know the material. Sometimes cramming with a “Philosophy for Dummies” book is all it takes to get a passing grade on the exam, and then they will give you credit for that course, even if you haven’t taken it.

Does that mean that you won’t be educated as well by the end of your schooling? No. I think it just means you’ll be educated differently, with a lot less wasted time and money. You’ll be able to zero in on what you really want to do, instead of spending years in classrooms that are horrendously boring.

So many choices are available to people today when it comes to education. Investigate them for your kids. A lot of my readers have very young children, and you’re not thinking about high school yet. Keep your eyes open for items in the news about online education or other alternatives. Remember that you do not have to do what people think you “should” do. You can chart your own course. And often that course is so much better than putting up with an unhealthy or wasteful environment.

What do you think? Are you looking at alternatives? What have you found?

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