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  1. Carrie
    February 12, 2014

    For valentines day I’ve been giving my hubby a gift each day with a note. Similar to a candy bar letter, but spread over the last 2 weeks. A lot of the notes have been about sex, and my hubby has loved it. It’s been a good way to let him know that I enjoy him. Examples: I like to ROLOver in bed with you. I like to SKOR with you.
    I like your other suggestions too. I need to do them more.

    • Sheila
      February 12, 2014

      Those are awesome!

    • Joy Washburn
      February 12, 2014

      Love the ideas about the candy bars ~ totally going to steal and use for my hubby ;-)

    • J (Hot, Holy & Humorous)
      February 13, 2014

      Love that idea!
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  2. Gale
    February 12, 2014

    And we husbands say, “Yes, Yes, Yes, Yes and Yes.”

    • J (Hot, Holy & Humorous)
      February 13, 2014

      Laughed out loud! Glad you agree.
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  3. Bonny
    February 12, 2014

    I love your #1 and the word Yes! Yes to initiating, yes to his overtures and if you are shy, saying, “Yes!” during lovemaking will brighten his day and let him know what he’s doing right. Great tips, J!

    • J (Hot, Holy & Humorous)
      February 13, 2014

      Thanks, Bonny!
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  4. Tiffany Godfrey
    February 12, 2014

    It’s so important for us as wives to play a part in sex. It’s one way to say to our husbands, “I love you.” I think playing a major part in sex and enjoying it maintains a strong marriage bond. Thanks for your advice.
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    • J (Hot, Holy & Humorous)
      February 13, 2014

      Indeed, Tiffany. It’s sometimes hard for us wives to grasp that sex sends that message of love to husbands, but it’s true. Thanks!
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  5. Jersey Girl
    February 12, 2014

    Sadly there is no reason for saying yes when your spouse shows no interest in your pleasure.
    There is nothing worse than a husband who complains about lack of sex and then makes no effort for my enjoyment.

    • J (Hot, Holy & Humorous)
      February 13, 2014

      My heart aches for you. I hope you’ve talked to him outside the bedroom about how you desire to enjoy the experience more and what might help. Praying your situation improves.
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  6. KellyMiller
    February 13, 2014

    I LOVE the candy bar idea! So creative. It’s often difficult for my husband and I because of our work schedules. I am a nurse and work 12 hour days, and he’s in management. However, we do make it work! Sheila, thank you for your inspiring blog and examples of how a Christian marriage should be.

    • J (Hot, Holy & Humorous)
      February 13, 2014

      Those conflicting schedules certainly are difficult for sexual intimacy in marriage! Make the most of the time you have. Many blessings, Kelly!
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  7. Dan
    February 14, 2014

    Don’t discount having sex 5 times in the same week as five ways to let him know you enjoy sex. Well…just sayin’. ;)
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