14 responses

  1. Stacy
    January 1, 2014

    Great article! Here’s to a hot 2014!

  2. J (Hot, Holy & Humorous)
    January 1, 2014

    I LOVE that you are willing to give specific, helpful tips. Thank you for encouraging marriages in this way. Looking forward to a great year in 2014! And to many more couples discovering how great sex can be in their marriage.
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  3. Crystal Green
    January 2, 2014

    These are some really good tips and many women can definitely say that they would make a positive difference in their sex life. I particularly liked the one of playing teacher. I know my husband would love that lesson as much as I would. This is a great start to the new year.
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  4. Paul H. Byerly
    January 2, 2014

    Great post! Any couple who worked on all of this should see her enjoying sex a great deal more.

    #5 is one every man needs to be told until he gets it!
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  5. Bethany
    January 3, 2014

    This is awesome. Just awesome. Thanks!!!

    • Sheila
      January 3, 2014

      You’re so welcome! And Happy New Year, Bethany! Nice to see you here again.

  6. Heather
    January 3, 2014

    Can’t wait to share these tips with my husband. Years of infertility turned our sex life upside down and we are just now finally getting a good spin on it again :)

    Here’s a great post I wrote about 7 years of marriage for us.

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    • Sheila
      January 3, 2014

      Way to go! I wish you both all the best for the new year!

  7. Monique
    January 3, 2014

    Interesting article. I would like to point out however that not EVERY woman *has* to have clitoral stimulation during sex to reach an orgasm. Some actually prefer their clitoris to NOT be touched at all during the actual PIV act, finding the pressure (or wrong technique) thoroughly offputting. Yes, this leads straight to your ‘be a teacher’ entry. The way to find out is at actually talk to your other half about what is and isn’t good for (both of) you. Likewise, men aren’t always rough brutal creatures. They also enjoy light touching and caressing.

    I’d also like to mention that ‘start sex with a massage’ is misleading. It leads to many implications that massage is ONLY about sex. How many women have been offered a massage and known it was offered just to get her in to bed? I’d say there were plenty. Instead, make it a point to have NON-sexual massage. Although women should understand that the man may not stay flaccid, and that that isn’t always a sign of imminent sex. It means he is enjoying himself and thoroughly immersed in the act of touching and connection. If you end up having sex from it, great! if not, you have spent quality time with your SO with no expectations. If the woman thinks the man will automatically want sex, perhaps try it when PIV sex isn’t an option (during a period), assuming that both parties are ok with this.
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    • Nicole
      January 4, 2014

      Sheila was using the starting with a massage as a way to enhance sexual pleasure for the woman. She’s not just talking about massage in a relationship – she’s talking specifically about times when you will be making love with your spouse. So it’s not really misleading when you’re doing it to start off things. And I also don’t think she’s insinuating men are rough brutal creatures.

      Great tips Sheila – thanks for being practical and showing us some ways we can enhance our own pleasure with our husbands! :)
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    • happywife
      January 6, 2014

      Hey, anytime my husband wants to treat me to a massage, I welcome anything else that it might lead to ;-)

  8. happywife
    January 6, 2014

    I meant to comment on this last week and then the week got away from me. I really appreciate that you are willing to get a bit “graphic” and share some specifics. It really is helpful and appreciated.
    Here’s to a great, sexy 2014!

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