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  1. Cassie
    November 20, 2013

    I have come to learn being open and honest about what feels good and what I like is the best thing. My husband wants to please me and enjoys that. But sometimes I have to let him know what feels good that day.
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    • userdand
      November 20, 2013

      “But sometimes I have to let him know what feels good that day.” This is an issue I keep reading about but is never really see addressed in any depth. It would be really great if Sheila did a post and some of you ladies expanded on it adding to the insight we guys could reap form your comments. I feel certain it is doesn’t come from the same place as just not being in the mood. As far as I know, we men don’t experience the same thing in the same way. We may progress into a state where are response to certain stimuli changes, but that change is not intermittent or transient. It usually comes with age or a medication side effect. You seem to be saying certain stimulus response will vary from one time to the next, and may be more physiologically driven than emotionally. Correct?

  2. Beth
    November 20, 2013

    Oh, those cards do sound interesting and fun! Thanks for always giving us new and fun ideas, Sheila, to keep our home fires burning bright! Thanks also for hosting Wifey Wednesday!

  3. Hannah
    November 21, 2013

    Love your suggestions, Sheila. I totally and wholeheartedly support the idea of actively and intentionally loving your husband working toward better sexual intimacy. I’m definitely going to consider the Deck of Cards idea for an anniversary present for my husband since it’s right after Christmas. Thanks for sharing.
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  4. Megan G.
    March 20, 2014

    We love the Deck of Dares! I’ve gotten it for several new brides, as well. I also think those massage candles you sometimes advertise are great, and can be fun for spicing things up. :)

    Great post!
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