'Questions?' photo (c) 2008, Valerie Everett - license: http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/2.0/Every weekend I like to throw up a question someone sends in and let you readers have a go at it. This week a reader asks, “Can you get over adultery?”

We’ve had an affair rock our marriage, and I’d like to know from others who have been there: can you get past this? Can you rebuild trust and find intimacy again? In our case both parties are sorry and want to work it out, but I just don’t see how we can get to a point where this isn’t always hanging over us.

What a heartbreaking question! But I know that it is possible. Here are a few links to other blog posts I’ve written about recovery from an affair:

Books to Help you Recover from an Affair
When You’re the One Who Needs Forgiveness (if you’re the one who had the affair)
Discovering Your Husband has had an Affair

Now let me hear from you! Have you walked through this? Let us know how you recovered. Leave your thoughts in the comments!

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