I thought every week I’d post a video of me answering a reader question. So here’s one that came through recently, from a new bride with a dilemma:

I need to keep the videos to under 3 1/2 minutes, so it’s hard to give a topic a thorough answer. What would you all add? I know she’ll be reading, so if you can think of some other great advice, please comment!

If you have a problem with a husband who is involved in porn, see my series here. Or if you have a problem feeling that sex is positive, reread Monday’s post! And, of course, The Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex deals with both these issues in detail.